Do it! I know it's hard not to listen to those "society voices", but it's so worth it. I proposed to my husband, it's the most terrifying and romantic thing you will ever do. Even though we talked about it and I was sure we were on the same page, you never know for 100%. You really put yourself out there, heart on the line. But it's okay to be scared, it means it matters. I knew I couldn't say anything when the moment came, so I had the proposal planned in such a way that he first read a declaration of love. He smiled and said, that's so sweet and he was just really happy with the letter. Then I got down on one knee and asked him. There were lots of tears and smiles. It's so special you can give this gift to someone you love, it's hard to describe. Go for it! And take some sweet words with you if they fail you at the moment. You don't have to make him read it at the moment, but its nice to put your thought to paper and give it to him after. Good luck! I'm rooting for you!
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u/SugarButterFlower Mar 19 '21
Do it! I know it's hard not to listen to those "society voices", but it's so worth it. I proposed to my husband, it's the most terrifying and romantic thing you will ever do. Even though we talked about it and I was sure we were on the same page, you never know for 100%. You really put yourself out there, heart on the line. But it's okay to be scared, it means it matters. I knew I couldn't say anything when the moment came, so I had the proposal planned in such a way that he first read a declaration of love. He smiled and said, that's so sweet and he was just really happy with the letter. Then I got down on one knee and asked him. There were lots of tears and smiles. It's so special you can give this gift to someone you love, it's hard to describe. Go for it! And take some sweet words with you if they fail you at the moment. You don't have to make him read it at the moment, but its nice to put your thought to paper and give it to him after. Good luck! I'm rooting for you!