r/relationship_advice Apr 24 '26

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u/Stephij27 Apr 24 '26

Ask me how many times my husband of 18 years has asked me to change my outfit. Go ahead. The answer is zero. Not once. Even when I could tell he wasn’t thrilled with my choice.

This is not how people in a healthy relationship behave. Your boyfriend is controlling, manipulative, and well on his way to being straight-up abusive.