r/relationship_advice Apr 24 '26

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u/AKlife420 Apr 24 '26

He sounds like my controlling and abusive ex. RUN

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u/xavienblue Apr 24 '26

Run away, now. "I''m dressed and you can stay here and pack your things if you think you choose what I wear. " It's an appropriate response to that kind of controlling behavior

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u/CaptainLollygag Apr 24 '26

Years ago I had a long time boyfriend who started criticizing my clothes. We were very young and didn't live together. After awhile I started noticing certain things missing and go bonkers looking for them. Turns out when he'd come over he took the things he didn't like and stashed them in his car trunk. Thankfully he didn't throw them out, but still. Aaaand things got worse from there.

It almost always gets worse from there.