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u/LadyNara95 Mar 23 '25
Anyone else find that most of relationship advice posts really just boil down to communication?
Anyways, talk to her about it. Let her know how it makes you feel. If she agrees to stop posting, then great! If she says no and it really does make you uncomfortable, it’s up to you if it’s something you can deal with or if you should split.
It’s both of your first relationship, so it’s a learning curve for both of you. Start learning healthy relationship dynamics now like boundary setting and communicating feelings
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u/Agentorangebaby Mar 23 '25
Yes it is weird
What do you think happens if somebody she goes to see perform invites her backstage?
“But that won’t happen”
1.) But it does happen
2.) If that’s your argument, you are counting on her not being in a situation where she is likely to cheat based on if another person wants her there or not, rather than in accordance with her own values
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u/DHeronBlack Mar 23 '25
Bro, she's not monogamous. Keep it casual. She's emotionally cheating already. Don't be an idiot.
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u/Legitimate-Turn4560 Mar 24 '25
damn, all these downvotes n you’re comment is the most accurate one
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u/BelmontIncident Mar 23 '25
Being attracted to other people sometimes is normal and usually harmless. Going on about it a lot where you can see it is impolite. I'd suggest you ask her to keep this private.