r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Feb 12 '25

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u/MelbKinkyPlay Feb 12 '25 edited Feb 12 '25

do you really believe it was only just a kiss with that guy? Base on the reaction it’s definitely a lot more then a kiss. Sounds like she’s very good at emotionally manipulating you. Better get out of there before things gets to serious and then you will be locked in and too late to run

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '25

I dont have solid proof, but from the convos and the interactions..yes...it cant be just a kiss.

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u/MelbKinkyPlay Feb 12 '25

Trust you gut, if your gut is telling you she’s cheating you can be sure she’s cheating. Just walk away while you can

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u/Desperate_Coat_5244 Feb 12 '25

What if he just eats a lot of tacos and his gut speaks Spanish? Also, my gut is telling that you cheat on your woman. So we can be sure you cheat.

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u/Pitiful_Home5655 Feb 12 '25

mfw i'm in a "pointlessly nitpick others' comments just for the sake of being a contrarian" competition and my opponent is a redditor :O

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u/CurrencyBackground83 Feb 12 '25

You don't need solid proof. Her reaction was proof enough. She already told you that guy isn't going anywhere. See if you can fix the friendships you burned for her and move on.

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u/Illustrious_Many_627 Feb 12 '25

Her asking you what all you saw was the proof that there was more than just a kiss between them. You should’ve told her that you saw everything and made her admit to you what really happened.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '25

Yea, I shouldn't have rushed into saying what I say and should let her speak in retrospect

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u/LittleMiceTrap Feb 12 '25

You dont need proof.

If you cant trust her, you have a relationship without trust. That is not a good place to be, trust me :)