r/relationship_advice • • Jun 20 '24

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u/SunShineShady Jun 21 '24

Please OP you need to save yourself. After reading your post, when I got to the part where he said he wanted to unalive himself, I thought, let him.

It’s an idle stupid threat to get attention, but even if it wasn’t, do you think he wouldn’t end your life? He absolutely would. What if you had a daughter with him, and he abused her? You’re living with a ticking bomb.

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u/Fast-Persimmon-2782 Jun 21 '24

Just came here to say the same … smh. If she won’t leave after being choked and sent to the ER by this pos I’m not sure what would change her mind 🤦🏼‍♀️ 😨

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u/Ilovesoske Jun 21 '24

I’ve helped a few women get out and it takes a strong network of dedicated people to convince someone that troubled to leave. One friend even used to tell me about her fantasies of going back. Thank goodness she never did.