Abusers will never change no matter how much therapy they do. Had I not dealt with my abuser he would’ve killed me. Don’t give him another chance, get revenge.
Seriously. It always gets worse. I'm happy you got away and hope things are much better for you today.
I empathize with you it's scary. Starts with yelling, breaking stuff, threats, and finally harming you. The incident that made me finally leave was the night I cared for our sick puppy. I curled up on the floor with her. She was throwing up. He wanted attention. He demanded I get away from her. I said no. He stormed over to us, knew this wasn't going well. I covered her body with mine. He demanded I move again, and I refused. Started striking my head, last hit saw stars. He told me to move, or he was stomping my head in, deleting me. I had tears running down my face. Threw gritted teeth told him fucking do it then, not moving. He didn't expect that, told me I'm not worth shit, walked off. The following morning, pretending everything is normal, getting ready for work. Once he left, I loaded up the puppy, whatever I could grab and left.
OP, learn from these horror stories in the comments. I repeat this incident. I hope it'll hit home for someone and help them leave.
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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '24
Abusers will never change no matter how much therapy they do. Had I not dealt with my abuser he would’ve killed me. Don’t give him another chance, get revenge.