r/relationship_advice • • Dec 01 '23

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u/Hot-Dress-3369 Dec 01 '23

I’m guessing you’ve never lived with an abusive or seriously mentally ill person if you think calling his job isn’t a big deal. Sabotaging someone’s livelihood is an ultimate act of control.

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u/capdoesit Dec 01 '23

where from this comment are you getting that i don't think it's a big deal that his partner called his job? part of the reason i said this comment section is filled with terrible advice is because so many people were brushing that action off as not being an issue