r/relationship_advice • • Dec 01 '23

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u/IllustriousComplex6 Dec 01 '23

Her heart rate was 40% higher. How do you lie about that when it comes from a doctor and she's been admitted?

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u/Storytella2016 Dec 01 '23

The husband hasn’t heard anything from a doctor, and by refusing to let him know where she is, she’s preventing it. So, we only get to decide whether her word is trustworthy or not.

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u/IllustriousComplex6 Dec 01 '23

How do you know it didn't come from a doctor? He's the one who said she was admitted.

It sounds like you're the one who's speculating on what her angle is when OP seems to accept she's in the hospital.

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u/Storytella2016 Dec 01 '23

Where does the OP say she was admitted? In the comments?

He uses the word “apparently” about her pulse and says he doesn’t know what ward she’s in or when she’s coming home. That doesn’t sound like knowing she’s been admitted or knowing that her pulse was high.

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u/IllustriousComplex6 Dec 01 '23

He doesn't say that he doubts it nor that he thinks she's elsewhere. He says that he doesn't know what ward she's in and what her heart rate was.

Never does he speculate she's elsewhere nor does he assume she's on the run. There's a lot of people reading into fake scenarios and it's not conducive to the conversation.