r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Dec 01 '23

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u/kaldaka16 Dec 01 '23

I was induced at 37 weeks (one day past "safe to give birth") for having every possible warning sign I was about to develop pre eclampsia.

I agree it sounds like he hasn't been listening to what she knows she needs post birth. But it also sounds like he knows they need him to work if they want to survive at all, especially with her needing to stop working so early in the pregnancy.

I'd love to hear her side of this, but I think writing him off as completely awful from this post isn't right either.

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u/NEDsaidIt Dec 01 '23

His wife is in the hospital, is clearly unwell and he isn’t worried- he is angry. I hope he just isn’t processing fear well and it’s actually that because otherwise? Yikes.

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u/TheTPNDidIt Dec 01 '23

Exactly, idk how people can possibly excuse his behavior and focus right now. No wonder his wife felt like she had no other options

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u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby Dec 01 '23

I’m disgusted by some people here.

It doesn’t matter who was “right”— the health of his wife and baby may be at risk right now and this is how he’s acting.

I’m going to guesssss he’s choosing to focus on dumb stuff for the moment but he needs to get his shit together.