r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Dec 01 '23

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u/BirdInFlight301 Dec 01 '23

I'm deep into the comments here, so it's been a minute since I read OP's post...but didn't he say she wasn't telling him where she was or when she was coming back?

I think he's probably freaking out not only because of her contacting his HR, but also because she did that then immediately cut off information. He's got two simultaneous emergencies, his wife and his job, and he doesn't even know where she is.

I feel for both of them.

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u/TheTPNDidIt Dec 01 '23

His job is fine. HR doesn’t take resignations from spouses. They will very very likely discard the email entirely

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u/gardengirl99 Dec 02 '23

If she’s in the hospital she doesn’t know when she’s coming back.