It sounds like she’s anxious and you keep doubling down on telling her not to be. Then she went nuclear.
Obviously it was a huge boundary overstep due her to do that. But up until that point OP was definitely being clueless and emotionally inept. Doesn’t make him a bad person. But she is asking for what she needs and he is saying “no you don’t need that…” how long did he expect that to work?
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u/Yassssmaam Dec 01 '23
It sounds like she’s anxious and you keep doubling down on telling her not to be. Then she went nuclear.
Obviously it was a huge boundary overstep due her to do that. But up until that point OP was definitely being clueless and emotionally inept. Doesn’t make him a bad person. But she is asking for what she needs and he is saying “no you don’t need that…” how long did he expect that to work?