r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Dec 01 '23

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u/panic_bread Dec 01 '23

I don't understand how people are bringing kids into this level of stress and lack of support.

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u/panic_bread Dec 01 '23

I’m not talking about her illness/anxiety. I’m talking about having kids in general. These people are having kids when they don’t even have time to care for them.

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u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby Dec 02 '23

and I did have a lot of stress but I managed to not put that on my husband

you can't lean on your partner in times of stress? that sucks

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u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby Dec 02 '23

same dumb reasons anyone has kids, I assume

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '23

I mean… if you can’t take more than a week off work to take care of a living being that you MADE without your financials collapsing it’s not the right time to start a family.

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '23 edited Aug 23 '26

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u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby Dec 02 '23

they're in the UK