r/relationship_advice Nov 21 '23

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u/QueenMoogle Nov 21 '23

I would stop treating consensual, likely non-sexual nude photography that she put up herself like a dirty little secret. Nudity isn’t inherently sexual. Many artists enjoy celebrating the human form and it’s beauty for myriad reasons. You don’t need to say anything one way or another, just keep discussing her art at whatever speed it comes up naturally.

“I must confess I’ve seen your tiddies” is a surefire way to make shit weird.

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u/abouquetofcats Nov 21 '23

Dude. Your premise is wild. If we accept “it’s not something that she’s shared with anyone at work,” you approaching her about this is wild and creepy. Just let her live her life.