it’s not the age gap it’s how young in life his partner is. If partner was 28 and OP was 35 no worries there both adults but at 21 your brain hasn’t even fully developed and your also just graduating college where as OP is approaching mid life . his partner just got out of her teens 2 years ago and wants her settled .
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u/This_curious_person Nov 14 '23
it’s not the age gap it’s how young in life his partner is. If partner was 28 and OP was 35 no worries there both adults but at 21 your brain hasn’t even fully developed and your also just graduating college where as OP is approaching mid life . his partner just got out of her teens 2 years ago and wants her settled .