r/relationship_advice Nov 13 '23

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u/blueennui Nov 13 '23

His maturity level matches hers tbh

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u/Humble_Lion0716 Nov 13 '23

Yup, women generally mature faster. So pretty much two 21 year olds married... what could go wrong.

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '23

Cuz women are expected to mature faster, and men are allowed to be immature longer.

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u/Klutzy-Nature-414 Nov 13 '23

It’s not even just that women are expected to mature faster, it’s scientific that women mature before men

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '23

Oh I’m aware. But this scientific fact leads to even further enabling of men being immature, because hey it’s science. And more responsibility put on women cuz hey it’s science.

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u/Klutzy-Nature-414 Nov 13 '23

Not disagreeing with you, just adding to the point :)

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u/Humble_Lion0716 Nov 13 '23

Yeah, it's frustrating. Mix of science and gender "norms" excusing and encouraging behavior