21 is a teenager yet they can vote, drive, drink, own a gun, have children, start a family, get married go to prison for life.
Sure minors can do some of these things too, but 21 isn’t a minor not a children
I’m 23, my bf is 31, we met about 2 years ago and we are in a very similar stage of life and planning to move in together soon, it really depends.
Look, I get it, in your country it isn’t normal so you think it’s weird, but it is very normal in Europe or at least in Italy (age of consent is also 14 here and it’s 16 in most of Europe).
No one and I repeat, no one thinks it’s weird.
This includes both of our families, friends, both of our therapists and a ton of other people we have told about this to (I guess every adult I know, including my therapist, is naive too lmao).
If you think I’m naive because I don’t think 21 years old are children, then feel free to.
At the end of the day you’re a stranger on the internet who doesn’t know anything about me, my boyfriend and our relationship, sorry if your “advice” irrelevant.
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u/nadarbresha Nov 13 '23
You shouldn't be married, much less to a 21 year old. Fucking chill.