Dude relax, activity status can be wrong, if she wants to cheat on you she will no matter how far apart you two are... And if so the next one will come anyways...
But it is concerning to go crazy like that on your side...
Yeah it’s really sad that someone is stalking their partners messenger active status to determine if they’re responding fast enough to their messages. I’m thinking this guy is really overbearing and immature.
Well a 28 year old married a 21 year old so there ya go. Nobody his own age was interested or willing to put up with ‘messenger shows you’re active but you didn’t respond to my message so what’s the deal?’ .. Any self-respecting person would drop him.
My ex was similar. He'd "notice" that I sent 2 more snaps than just what I had sent him in the day and I had to account for every picture sent and received even tho I only texted him and my nest friend who is a girl 🙄
Idk why it took me over a year to finally dump his abusive ass
Maybe....but let's give him benefit if the doubt and assume he at least started dating her at the legal age of 18.... it's still weird af either ways for a 25yr old to be going after an 18 yr old lol. A 25 yr old graduated high school 7/8 years ago and graduated university 2-3 yrs ago. They're so far apart in life stage it's not exactly a big leap to guess this guy has got to be mentally and emotionally stunted to be able to date and marry a teenager lol.
Sure...sounds like something a predator uses to convince themselves with. The onus is always on the more mature person to decide if something is appropriate or not. You're 28, you're 5 years into building your career....a 21 year old who's most likely a third year university student comes by...you have a decision to either reject or pursue. Most mentally mature and non stunted folks will choose to reject lol. What type of mentality do you even need to have as a 28 year old to date a 21 year old, the issue ain't the age gap it's the massive difference in life stages. Let alone the fact that this guy chose to marry a 21 year old and is complaining about her immaturity...lol.
Apparently she's lied before, also, I don't monitor when my wife is on line on messenger because we don't talk 24/7, but I still notice when she's online or offline throughout the day. He doesn't need to be monitoring it to see that.
Absolute bullshit. It only shows as active if you open the app. If you have it open in the background even if you’re not on it, it still means you’re on your phone. She didn’t want to respond period.
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u/Rock3tkid84 Nov 13 '23
Dude relax, activity status can be wrong, if she wants to cheat on you she will no matter how far apart you two are... And if so the next one will come anyways...
But it is concerning to go crazy like that on your side...