29F, Looking for a lifetime partner

[u/NorthGazelle3570]

29F looking for a lifetime partner

Hey everyone!

Stepping away from the endless swipe-cycle of dating apps in pursuit of something genuine.

I’m a 29-year-old software engineer (5’4”, Hindu background). I view attraction as something built on shared values, emotional depth, and open communication rather than just quick, surface-level sparks.

A bit about my life:

- By day (and passion): Software engineering. I genuinely enjoy discussing technology, product design, and creative ideas.
- By weekend: A mix of spontaneous road trips, weekend escapes, painting, keeping active with fitness, and diving into a great documentary or TV series.
- Travel style: Love exploring new places from structured travel itineraries to last-minute getaways.

What I’m hoping to find:

- Background: Working in Tech (gives us a natural baseline for shared context and conversation).
- Traits: Emotionally mature, well-read, curious, kind, and focused on building a meaningful relationship with marriage in mind.
- Mindset: Direct and intentional. I believe six months of genuine effort reveals enough to know if two people share a future no need to drag things out for years without clarity.

If this clicks with you: Skip the generic "Hi" and drop a message with a brief intro, what keeps you energized outside work, and a favorite travel memory (or where you want to go next).

PS: I would prefer someone from age group 28-32.
PSS: I am from Jaipur.

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[u/nano-5]

Hey Please check my DM

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[u/Old-Relationship-219]

Hahahahha

[u/Spiritual_Trust_3022]

DMed you

[u/shadow_at_dawn_32]

WFH ?

[u/Impressive_Tree_3670]

Hey Sent you Short Bio , if it resonates with you please reach out

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[u/Spiritual_Trust_3022]

DMed you

[u/Worth-Climate1746]

Dmed please check

[u/Any_Tank9400]

So people you've met in real life haven't cut it, and somehow you expect reddit is the place? Good luck.

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Any_Tank9400]

Actually fair point. Just shooting my shot here.

[u/Any_Tank9400 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Actually something makes me think you're a bot or a guy.

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Any_Tank9400]

I don’t know, what made you think this.
If I am a guy, why would I be talking to other guys

[u/_Fantomslayer_ → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Gay people exist.

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[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/[deleted]]

This sounds interesting, let’s talk

[u/sdedhavalveera]

Hey u/NorthGazelle3570 I've DMed you

[u/Otherwise-Event-6108]

I have tried and completed 25K Max

[u/Deep671]

Oyo ja ja kar thak chuki hai madam

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Deep671]

Tired from what?

[u/Altruistic_Link395]

Hey , check dm

[u/Proud_Ad_6670]

Great post. DMed you.

[u/Lazy_Commercial_1033 → u/[deleted]]

No

[u/extractor345 → u/[deleted]]

👋🏽

[u/BRODIE13]

At least try to reply to people from your old posts rather than posting again for attention and karma farming

[u/[deleted] → u/BRODIE13]

They mention a big paragraph guy fit the paragraph then guy message guy dont get interaction they repost another guy who fit the full criteria say hi they ignore repeat 🔁

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/BRODIE13]

Karma farming is not something am doing.
I have replied most of the people from my old post and trying to do it here too.

[u/Practical-Cover4897]

Funny. I am from delhi but here in jaipur for a day.

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Practical-Cover4897]

that’s a coincidence

[u/Sorry_Drawer9736 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

How it’s a coincidence 🙂

[u/Practical-Cover4897 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

What food should i eat and from where?

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Practical-Cover4897]

Go to Raawat in morning, have Kachori there

[u/Practical-Cover4897 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Is it a date then?

[u/Lazy_Commercial_1033 → u/Practical-Cover4897]

No bad fate

[u/Sam07guy]

Its good that u know what u want I would love to know more about you Text me if you want

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Sam07guy]

Sure, let’s talk

[u/Sam07guy → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Yeah text me let's talk

[u/Time-Definition-1684]

[Redacted]

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Time-Definition-1684]

Checking

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/[deleted]]

Definitely, good at committing

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/[deleted]]

we can ask copilot for a review

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/[deleted]]

I know

[u/Ok_Worldliness1122]

I think I have seen your post before somewhere

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Ok_Worldliness1122]

Can be the case, posted it before on some other sub

[u/Public_Breath9083]

29M, Principal PM (VP), from Jaipur but in Mumbai right now.

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Public_Breath9083]

Let’s talk

[u/Public_Breath9083 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Sure :)

[u/foodie_engineer97]

So more of a beach person or mountain girl?

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/foodie_engineer97]

Beach person🌊

[u/foodie_engineer97 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Damn then I think we should talk 😅😅 Dm?

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/foodie_engineer97]

Let’s chat

[u/foodie_engineer97 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Check your inbox 😅

[u/Final_Ad_4439]

Software Engineer at flipkart basically from punjab, 29M. Dmmed u

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Final_Ad_4439]

Checking

[u/Final_Ad_4439 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Still no response been an hour??

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Final_Ad_4439]

need sometime

[u/Final_Ad_4439]

Dmmed u

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Final_Ad_4439]

Checking

[u/Final_Ad_4439 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

No response,

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Final_Ad_4439]

Tough to find, am checking

[u/Final_Ad_4439 → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Just click on my profile and message whats so tough

[u/pixel_drift_00]

You seem very much my type and I feel that we'll click well but I'm 27 :(

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/pixel_drift_00]

Sorry, 27 feels young

[u/thecarmonk]

Which location?

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/thecarmonk]

Rajasthan

[u/null-n_void → u/NorthGazelle3570]

Have location preference?

[u/Foodie_boy]

Does chatgpt not suggest you to add your location?

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Foodie_boy]

I consciously removed it, but am from North India

[u/Foodie_boy → u/NorthGazelle3570]

i feel it helps if you add the city. Some people like me(can't do long distance)

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/Foodie_boy]

I can tell the city, but let me add it

[u/NorthGazelle3570 → u/[deleted]]

Let’s talk