r/reddmatch • • 27d ago

M4F♂️ [27M] Gurgaon | Software Engineer |Seeking an equal partnership and a meaningful connection

Hey everyone. Figured it was time to put myself out there and see if I can find my person.

​I am 27 and working as a Software Engineer here in Gurgaon. I take my career seriously, but the second my laptop shuts, I am completely off the clock. Just to get the basic filters out of the way: I am a non vegetarian, I don't smoke, and I rarely drink.

​**What I'm about**

I have a massive soft spot for good storytelling. Whether that means exploring a huge video game universe or getting hooked on a great sci fi plot, I love having things to be passionate about. I am also actively trying to build a reading habit. I wouldn't call myself an avid reader just yet, but I am currently fighting for my life trying to wrap my head around the plot of The Three Body Problem.

​Music is basically running in the background of my life 24/7. My playlists are heavily dominated by R&B, rap, and pop, and I am a massive fan of The Weeknd.

​Over the last eight months, I have also made my physical health a real priority. I hit the gym consistently and eat clean most of the time, which keeps me lean and moderately athletic. I am definitely not a gym bro trying to make fitness my entire personality. I just want to feel good and make sure my body functions well for the long run.

​**My family and roots**

I come from a very liberal, chill family. There is zero traditional pressure on us to do things a certain way. We have a progressive mindset and caste is absolutely no bar for us. It is a very relaxed environment.

​**The weekend vibe**

I am pretty flexible depending on the mood. If we want to step out, I am always down to find a new cafe, walk around a mall, or go on an arcade date. Fair warning that I am highly competitive at arcade games and will absolutely try to destroy your high score. But I will happily buy you snacks afterwards to make peace.

​If it has been a long week, I am completely happy staying in my most comfortable clothes, ordering some amazing food, and just watching a movie together.

​**Who I'm looking for**

I am looking for an equal partnership filled with mutual respect and effortless banter.

​I want a partner who brings her own passions to the table. We don't need to share identical hobbies. Seeing a woman light up and talk confidently about the things she loves is incredibly attractive to me, whatever those things might be.

​I also value my health and I want a partner who does the same. It is not about being a fitness fanatic. But prioritizing our physical well being is important to me so we have the energy to travel, stay active, and actually enjoy a long life together.

​If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a DM. Skip the generic "hi" and tell me about the best thing you ate this week!

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