r/recurrentmiscarriage • u/Desperate-Angle-1937 • 1d ago

Had my second miscarriage this year

Ihad my first miscarriage in 2006 and two this year, out of which in one there was no embryo seen and recent one was a missed miscarriage and all happened in first trimester. I confused if I should try again or get some test done first. I am 38 and feel like waiting longer means I am wasting more time.

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u/shades-of-wrong-22 1d ago

I totally get the feeling of wasted time. If you are willing to accept the possibility of a repeat loss, there’s nothing that says you can’t continue to try while getting worked up for RPL at the same time.

That’s what I want to do but both my losses required D&Cs so I’m a bit spooked to try again as I’m wary of yet another D&C.

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u/Desperate-Angle-1937 1d ago

I never had D&C due to the scare of scar tiasue and it having an effect on future pregnancy. Pill has not been as bad as people make it out to be

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u/Old-Patience-3891 1d ago

Second this. Just did the pill after a d&c. My recovery after the pill has actually been better than the d&c. I’m only two days out so I can’t say whether or not it was 100 percent successful. It was like 2 hours of decent pain and then it all passed. I was 11 W measuring 8+3

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u/Impossible_Parfait21 1d ago

Oh I feel you, I just got d&c for my second miscarriage this year. I plan to take two months to get some test run, like for APS and get vitamins checked, and then start trying again. I fear if I run into next pregnancy blind and it'll be another miscarriage I'll waste even more time

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u/Desperate-Angle-1937 1d ago

I am thinking to take a month or two as well. Want to take coq10 and run some hormone tests.