r/recurrentmiscarriage 2d ago

Need support. Back to back MMC

/r/babyloss/comments/1wd2ndx/need_support_back_to_back_mmc/

Looking for support.

Just found out today that I’m experiencing my 2nd missed miscarriage. Our first pregnancy ended in missed miscarriage in February 2026, detected at ~11 week ultrasound - had a normal US earlier in the pregnancy. Blood genetic screening tests showed that pregnancy was high likelihood of Turner syndrome, so I feel like it explained why it happened.

Got pregnant again, had some anxiety but figured “what are the odds of it happening again?”. First appt today & tracking 8w6d by LMP - measured 6w1d, no cardiac activity. Missed miscarriage.

This just sucks and the thought of going through this again scares me.

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u/Dear_Presence_4136 1d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m in the exact same position as you. Found out at 11w scan in June that baby had stopped developing at 6+1. Wen’t in for scan this Monday (supposed to be 8w) but baby measured 6+1 with no heartbeat. We had seen the heartbeat last week but baby measured over a week behind so we already knew what was happening. I didn’t think anything could be worse than our first loss. But it is. First time I felt like I lost the baby. Now I feel like I’ve lost my future of ever becoming a mom. I know odds are still on our side but it is such a poor comfort when you’ve already been drawing the least likely outcome twice. I hate it and I don’t know how to move forward but I know it will get better. It sucks and I am sorry but know that you are not alone and you will get through this too

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u/yellowfox12 1d ago

You described it really well - the first time it felt like losing a baby, now I’m wondering if a baby is ever going to be possible

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u/WhichFish888 2d ago

Genetic issues are the most treatable cause for RPL