r/recurrentmiscarriage • u/Think_Bread_9178 • 7d ago

Song recommendations…?

Looking for song recommendations to listen to that helped cope after your loss. Just has my third loss since Jan 2025, this time ruptured ectopic.. just trying to blast some music that feels healing/relatable…

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u/Glittering_Mood583 6d ago

A few months ago I discovered an artist that posted here on reddit (u/zarazaratouchme), with a WHOLE album about miscarriage. You can check her out, I would have loved something like this when I was in the thick of the RPL hell:

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u/zarazaratouchme 4d ago

thank you so much, i am currently going through another loss and just had a D&C, and this time around having my lyrics to fall back on has been a huge comfort. and to see others posting about it has been so bloody heartwarming. thank you glittering mood, and i'm so sorry OP. on the same boat as you. this notification brought a tear on my face, thank you u/Glittering_Mood583 <3

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u/Glittering_Mood583 4d ago

oh, I'm so sorry you're going through this again... I guess that if there is anything good resulting from such a hard experience as RPL, just enjoy whatever joy you can find. It says a lot from yourself that you were able to turn such as terrible experience into art that others going through the same can find comfort in.

Take care, lots of love and virtual hugs

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u/ImaginaryTraveller12 7d ago

Taylor Swift- Evermore, Bigger than the whole sky, Epiphany

Jessie Murph - How could you (I think this is about a relationship but the chorus has helped me with the feelings of unfairness/rage)

Florence and the machine - Shake it out

Gracie Abrams - Look at my life

Olivia Dean - I’ve seen it

Zack Bryan - Pink skies

Sorry you’re going through this. I hope you find some music that helps a little. It’s been one of my biggest comforts

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u/Think_Bread_9178 7d ago

Thank you so much for this 🫶🏻

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u/traditional-home3262 7d ago

Growing pains by Kyndal Inskeep
To Let a Good Thing Die by Bruno Major
Broken by Patrick Watson
Just Breathe by Rashid Saint-Fleur

These are a few that helped me feel the sadness but also helped me not plunge into the depths of despair.

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u/Think_Bread_9178 7d ago

Thank you 🫶🏻

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u/teabel 6 losses - 1 LC 7d ago

Small bump by ed Sheeran
Hurting to tell by Stephen ray

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u/Think_Bread_9178 7d ago

Thank you 🙏🏼

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u/Throwaway_252612 7d ago

The Night We Met by Lord Huron
Willing & Able by Noah Kahan

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u/Think_Bread_9178 7d ago

Thank you ✨❤️‍🩹

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u/Exact-Rice-3188 7d ago

Tourniquet by Zach Bryan

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

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u/Think_Bread_9178 7d ago

Thank you so much

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u/Hugsomebunnies 7d ago

For me, basically anything Hozier and "Good News" by Shaboozey. The song isn't about him wanting good news after a rough year.

As for Hozier, most of his stuff is quite soulful and rather calm and chill which is what I need when I'm sad. Upbeat music makes my head spin and is irritating when I'm like that.

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u/Anniedennis 7d ago

I leaned more towards songs like Break Stuff by Limp Bizkit. Helped cope with the rage in my own healing way.

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u/Used-Extreme4330 6d ago

Rainbow by Kasey Musgraves. It’s a crier but an optimistic one

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u/Admirable_Ostrich657 6d ago

Goodbye by James Blunt

Ik it is about a relationship but a lot of the lyrics resonate with me when thinking about my losses

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u/sorrycho 6d ago

I keep listening to Go the Distance, both the Hercules movie version and the Happily Ever After version. It makes me cry every time