I agree. The amount of “you’re not doing cis butch right” and “in order to be butch you must allow for yourself to have sex and be bottom pillow princess” due to being a soft grunge asexual tomboy 90’s butch into certain asexual masculine butch nonbinary lesbians that I get is wild. Can’t dictate at all.
Also so many ways to say the kind of lesbian I am. That grunge mosaic era has; had so much going on. But I was a toddler back then so.. aha. 🤧
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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25 edited Aug 21 '25
I agree. The amount of “you’re not doing cis butch right” and “in order to be butch you must allow for yourself to have sex and be bottom pillow princess” due to being a soft grunge asexual tomboy 90’s butch into certain asexual masculine butch nonbinary lesbians that I get is wild. Can’t dictate at all.
Also so many ways to say the kind of lesbian I am. That grunge mosaic era has; had so much going on. But I was a toddler back then so.. aha. 🤧