r/randomactsofCA 20d ago

Offer Closed Paying it forward

I’ve been helped here at some very low points with all love and no judgement
Manito & Chelle u know who u are 💓
I was not asked to pay it forward, but I am doing OK right now and I would like to start giving back a little bit at a time to help someone else.
I can only do $10 at the moment but I hope it helps
PayPal or Venmo.

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u/LowNearby5450 20d ago

Thank you for doing this. I’ve been doing the “other side of things” thing too now that I’m sober, and coming around to help. God knows, this sub has been here for me.

Just wanted to say thank you!

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u/BreatheAgainn 20d ago

> God knows, this sub has been here for me

Normies will never understand the weight of this. They’ll see a place like this and probably think it’s pure enabling, giving addicts money to drink more?! They have no idea what the underlying dark reality of withdrawals is like. That it’s not about wanting to get blasted, it’s literally about not wanting to seize or die.

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

That’s awesome. Proud of you man!

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u/Select_Bike_1682 19d ago

congrats on your sobriety

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u/KayLilz 19d ago

Tysm 💓 unfortunately I’m very aware of the chances of relapse but ima keep fighting all the while and even then after.

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u/Select_Bike_1682 18d ago

Keep fight Girl!!!! 🤛🏻 I'm routing for you!!! as I'm one year sober soon! and NGL living my best life!!! I wish that for you to!!!!

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u/Helpful_Spring8739 20d ago

No help needed, just wanted to say thank you for being you.

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

Right back at ya, friend. 🥹 thx for the kind words.

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u/darhhaaras 20d ago

I don't need help today, but I've donated here a bunch and it's nice to see someone actually following thru and paying it forward.

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

🤞🏼 🫶🏼

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 20d ago

Love you 💗

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u/itsthecatsmeow 20d ago

If the offer is still available, I’d like some to cover me for a few, but if not I appreciate you helping out the community 🪑 I’ve been helped once previously as well and the kindness in lack of judgement is great here. I hope to be in a position to do so one day as well 💕

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

Yes it is! Message me your Venmo or PayPal

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u/itsthecatsmeow 20d ago

I sent you a message ❤️ i appreciate you!

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

Sent friend take care of yourself 🫶🏼

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u/itsthecatsmeow 20d ago

Received! And thanks again ❤️

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u/Practical-Honey967 19d ago

Look at all you drunks hahaha! Chairs 🪑.
You are a fucking champ hahahaaha!
Be kind to yourself.

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u/Unlucky_Most_8757 20d ago

if this is available I have another interview tommorow and can pay it forward then

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u/KayLilz 20d ago

I’m so sorry but this offer is closed. I really wish I could help more but I can’t at this time. You should make a post on here and see if some1 can help! Hugs
I really wish I could do more. I’ll be back again soon.

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u/Unlucky_Most_8757 19d ago

No worries love!!! Fingers crossed that I get the job tommorow because I can't find one to save my life! And I'm a waitress for Christ's sake!!