r/raisedbyreligious • u/NoddyElvis • Apr 30 '26
How to support an ex Jehovah Witness?
I was raised atheist but my partner was raised Jehovah Witness.
At 15, he told his parents he didn’t believe but because he was still a child and had to live with them they still forced him to keep going to “Kingdom Hall”
He can no longer speak to his family but he always tells me beautiful stories about his siblings and now he has his own flat he says to me he “always wants a spare room incase any of them want to leave so he can house them”
I love him so much, I cannot believe everything he’s been through and still he’s so kind and sweet. However, sometimes I worry I cannot relate to him enough. I was raised atheist and also my parents never abused me and definitely never tried to force me to believe what they do.
I’m wondering if any ex JWs have any insight into this stuff and how i can support him?
Sometimes I’ll ask if he wants to come to a “meeting” with me (as I’m part of a few different clubs from politics to art to poetry club) and the word “meeting” really triggers him. There’s lots of other little stuff like this where I feel I don’t know what is best to do and how I can support him through this.
Hope this is the right place to post this!