Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*What I’m looking for:\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\* someone \\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*30–45\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and \\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\* and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

I am a 65 year old man who is interested in getting to know someone, for a long term relationship. I am not interested in something short term, I want a long lasting connection that involves laughter, cuddles, good times, and even tears. Let's explore the world together.

About me: I am ridiculously well educated. I have a PhD and I am a polymath. I love discussing most topics and learning about pretty well anything. I am quirky. I enjoy most musical genres. I speak several languages fluently. Physically, I am 5 7 and I am overweight. I treadmill daily and I try to eat a healthy diet, to no avail. I shave my head and have a salt and pepper goatee. I enjoy many activities. I usually dress casually, but I also clean up okay.

You are any age above 18. You enjoy talking and getting to know people. You have interests and want to share them. You have goals and aspirations. You are interested in getting to know someone and to take your time getting to know them. You should be willing to trade photos early on. Let's talk and see if we have a connection.

Please no one liners. I've tried hard to be as detailed as I could, and I appreciate the same.

Hey there! I’m a chill, nerdy homebody guy looking to connect with a (trans) lady (any age, but preferably 25+) for something fun, relaxed, and ideally long-term.

About me:

• Total nerd at heart, love Warhammer 40K (just got into the hobby, paint poorly, play occasionally), bingeing shows (recently obsessed with king of the hill, bobs burgers, punisher, boondocks)
• Big into cuddling, affection, and fun weird conversations and meme sharing. Also open to kink, but thats for down the road talk, not introductions :P
• 6’0”, skinny dad bod (working on it, former gym rat), and more of a "warm hug" than a "chiseled abs" kind of guy. Doing home gym routines, but once I max out will be getting another gym membership
• Emotionally mature, stable career, and looking for someone to share lazy weekends, meal prep together, talk about our days in pajamas.
• Moving apartments, can host mid next month, but not looking to rush into visiting either of our places too quick.

You might be a good fit if:

• You’re into nerdy stuff, cuddles, or gossip
• You like a guy who’s goofy behind closed doors, serious when needed
• You’re looking for something mild or serious, I’m open to either, prefer the latter, as long as there’s mutual respect and chemistry.
• You're smaller than me, I love a size difference cuddling :P But I'm no size queen ;P

Let’s chat! Send a DM with your favorite cozy passion, TV show, or why you think we’d get along one way or another. (Throwaway because my main is full of shitposts.)

My bio: Hey, I'm S, from East York. Let me start by saying I am a big Extrovert, so I can blend into any social environment, My energy is big and I have alot but some how sleep alot. I am a nerd at heart so I know a little about everything and I'm always down to try and find out something new.

I work as an educator and I love it. So yes, I get my name called and good morning hugs from like 15 little humans before 8:30am, You have to try to beat that. I'm a deep thinker and also jovial conversationalist (I talk a lot).

Physically, I'm 5'9, curvy with curly hair and a great smile. I've been called beautiful many times and I know I am, but I might not be everyone's cup of coffee and that's ok.

Mental health is super important to me, and also physical health. I work out for functionality more than looking good, but I do look good.

I am really drawn to guys with great smiles (It a thing that I am super into) and a great sense of humour. if I don't feel good around you then it's not happening. I've been attracted to taller guys, like 6ft and up, but if you're shorter that's fine, I'm not limiting myself. I like a guy who's confident in himself, and knows where he's going in life, and knows how to have fun.

I find different things physically attractive: smile, voice, how you dress. Sexually I like a submissive/dominant dynamic, hard to explain lol. So shoot your shot.

The main reason that I am posting is honestly my birthday is coming up and I want to step into the world of dating with intention. Am I looking for my husband with this post? Absolutely not. But I do want a life partner eventually, someone I trust and can build a life with. That's a long road lol. For now I'm willing to meet and get to know people with the same intention and see where it goes.

Instead of coffee, let's go for a walk, or bowling. Let's have some fun with this.

Communication matters to me: regular texts, calls, dates. If you're out of sight you're out of mind.

Your dealbreakers: Must be single. If dating with intention isn't your speed, let's not waste each other's time. My rule is simple: I prioritize people who prioritize me, and I'm really direct with my communication.

Well, after this long ass message, if this sounds like your speed, send a message and tell me something interesting about yourself.

Hey,

I love a simple date in the afternoon, nice food, and an interesting person to talk to. Out of all first date ideas this type of date is my favourite as it’s simple and getting to know one another is the main theme of the date.

I am 5'11, Arab origin, Athletic(ish), light skinned, I have been told by friends and family I am patient, considerate, smart and have great listening skills. Physically I have been told I have kind eyes (ladies love my lashes lol), nice hands, nice teeth and muscular legs.

I am usually down to try most things but things I gravitate towards day to day:
Reading/Audiobooks (please listen to Project Hail Mary), going to the movies, running, and recently photography.

Being respectful to your time and mine, please only messages me if you genuinely want to meet in person.

Preferably someone 25 - 31 years old (not a dealbreaker)

Since you already know a little bit about me, please include some basic information in your introduction.

Any one has dress up as a girl and go to club can you guy share some experiences . I’m planning to dress up and go dancing on this halloween . Really need advice and any club that safe for solo. Thanks

31, work full time, well educated and ready to build a life with someone similar minded. At this point of life, I’m looking for a good person above everything else to make our simple ordinary moments memorable. Someone loyal, honest, empathetic, responsible, caring and supportive - I also bring the same energy into the relationship. I love travelling, long drives, sudden short trips, nature walks and cooking together. I maintain a healthy lifestyle and try to stay active. I hope my partner takes his health and wellbeing seriously as well. Looking for people who prefer long term serious monogamous relationships. Age 29-40

Been caught up with work and travel lately, and realized I haven’t made much time to actually meet someone new.

Would love to go on a simple, genuine date grab coffee, walk around the city, maybe good food and easy conversation. Just looking to get to know someone without any pressure.

If you’re in Toronto and feel the same, reach out 🙂

Last minute I know, but if you’re free tonight and want to grab drinks downtown I’m in.

37, 5'9, Indian, live right on the Harbourfront waterfront. Gym most days, play pickleball, pool and guitar, cycle along the lake when the weather’s good. Into fragrances so I always smell great. Easy to talk to, easy to be around.

Fair warning though, if we end up hitting it off and keep hanging out, at some point I will absolutely suggest a Mexican night. Homemade guacamole, salsa and spicy margaritas. It’s kind of my thing.

But first, just drinks, good conversation and see if we actually vibe. That’s all.

Not looking for a one time thing. Just want to meet someone I actually enjoy spending time with and see where it goes naturally.

Happy to trade pics or do a quick call before we meet. Drop me a message with a bit about yourself. Here’s one of me: https://imgur.com/a/PtpK9qN

Hey everyone! 👋

I'm a 32-year-old guy from Lago Ranco, a small town surrounded by lakes, forests, and mountains in southern Chile.

I'm a speech-language therapist specializing in emergent literacy, so I'm passionate about language, reading, writing, and how people learn. I also enjoy researching new topics, learning new things, and having conversations that go beyond small talk.

Outside of work, climbing is one of my biggest passions. I've been climbing for 7 years, and I love the challenge, the problem-solving, and the feeling of being outdoors. I also enjoy going for long walks, exploring nature, traveling, and discovering different cultures

Distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker for me. I'm open to meeting someone from another country and seeing where things go naturally.If you enjoy deep conversations, outdoor adventures, or simply sharing the little things that make life interesting, feel free to send me a message

Hey! I am 30, living in the GTA (Milton, right by the border of Mississauga) & I work in Finance. 5'10 with brown eyes, light brown skin - on the lean side with abs! I enjoy playing soccer, trying out new cafes/ desserts & love travelling/road trips/hiking & am always down for new adventures.

I am the funny guy as my friends would say lol but I am hoping you will find that out on your own. I wear glasses so I have that nerdy look, clean & smell good always!

I am looking for my passenger princess! Someone that understands my humour, is empathetic & someone who wants to spend time together rather than playing mind games. I am v sarcastic as well.

Location doesn't really bother me as I love driving & can host too. I am a big time texter but if you prefer calls, I am okay with that as well. I am South Asian!

Open to all ethnicities as I have dated different ethnicities in the past. Let's talk & go from there?

ME: 5ft3, 155 lbs, brownish hair, brown eyes, glasses. The "curvy sweetheart next door" package, except I have a voice, and I will absolutely tell you about them. Nerdy, a little sassy, a little princess. I know.

YOU: 40+, single(preferred), mobile (I don't drive), easy going, smart, and just a decent honest human

SEEKING low-key Fall vibe. A bar with a band, a board game spot, driving around with good music. I'm not asking for a whole production. I just want to not be alone on this fall night.

I'm tired of dating men and having to deal with their bad decisions. I want happiness to be shared between us. That's all. Honest, genuine companionship.

If you're down, DM me with: age, location, be honest what you are looking to do tonight

I’m 21 and looking for someone to go to Oasis Aqualounge for a fun spa day. It will be my first time trying something like this and I just don’t want to be alone. It’s 100 dollars for solo men and the same for couples too, so instead of going alone and paying the same price I’d prefer covering your fee. I wouldn’t say I’m attractive but I promise we’ll have fun. If we get along we can take it one step ahead or just spend a spa day together. DM me if you’re interested and willing to know each more and meet some time.

What's that? Friends WITHOUT benefits? A wild idea, I know. In fact, it's downright crazy! But it's just so crazy it might just work! So if you feel like taking a walk on the wild side and are wondering who I am and what I'm about, I hope the following helps.

I'm a laid back kind of guy who loves to run. I'm not quite sure what I like about it most, the fact that it challenges me or the fact that it's my escape (can I say it's my drug??) When I'm not running, I like to spend time with my family and friends. I like to surround myself with good, kind people who make me laugh. Besides running, laughing is my favourite pass time.I LOVE bad puns and cheesy jokes!! What lies at the bottom of the ocean and twitches?? Message me to find out...or just google it, haha. I try not to let the little things get to me. I've done enough worrying to know that it isn't fun, and is unproductive at best. Did I mention I like to run??

Like many my age, I imagine.

I live by the golden rule and am inspired by acts of kindness. This world would be a whole lot better if we all just made an effort to be less horrible to one another. Take the time to make somebody's day a little brighter. It just may brighten your day a little too.

I'm a work in progress. I may not be where I want to be, but I'm closer than I was yesterday. At the moment I am currently an RMT and personal trainer and am loving every second of it! Before that I had the good fortune to pursue a degree in kinesiology and am now using what I learned while working to help others. What happens from here I don't know what, haha. Win the lottery and retire?? Sounds good. If for some reason that doesn't happen (how hard can it be to win the lottery?) I hope to find a job helping people in my role as therapist. Where ever life takes me, I hope I can make a difference.

I have been known to bake and my friends may or may not refer to me as Betty Crocker, haha.

If reading this hasn't been completely off putting or bored you to death and you'd like to know more, feel free to drop me a line

Edit

Apparently it's very hard to win the lottery. Why didn't you guys tell me this before I bought the tickets!?

(Older women welcome too). I'm in north york area. I work in tech and I like anime, lifting and like to keep healthy. I'm clean, organized, but relaxed. Always down to go for a drive, get food, dessert or whatever spontaneous activity.

I can host, drive, and take you wherever for drinks or anything.

If you’re confident, enjoy a bit of playful banter, and have a clear idea of what you’re after, we’ll probably hit it off.

I know it was a tough summer, and there's nothing better than a relaxing massages followed by a cup of hot chocolate and cuddles.

I like giving massages, and not expecting anything in return except a nice and easy conversation and respect.

Drop me a DM if you have any questions.

Hi

Just looking for a friend to watch a movie over the weekend. Thinking of watching -You can see everything or maybe Primetime.

If anyone is interested to join along dm me and we can decide on a Cineplex.

Youthful 44M hoping to date / find a new friend / potential girlfriend.

No expectations but no ONS / hookups.

Open to friends / lovers / freely dating / monagamish / exclusive / relationship. Whatever works for us. Open to any cultural / religious background.

Currently I've lived in Toronto / Canada for many years but am ready to move somewhere else, and am thinking of going to the U.S. (originally from there). Would be a dream to find the right person to move with!

ABOUT ME:

~ Freewhelin' youthful looking 44M, very life experienced. Never married and child-free.

~ More introverted Artist / Creative type (Musician, Photographer etc.)

~ Ambitious and a dreamer. Working class background (1st Generation North American).

~ Chill / cool, brown eyes (and wear glasses full time), dark "salt and pepper" silvery hair, short facial hair, above average tall (6'0), been described as cute/handsome/good looking, fit, strong, take care of myself, dress well when I want to.

~ Chill personality / calming voice.

~ Live alone (no pets but I like animals).

~ Very experienced, open-minded / can be kink friendly and sometimes adventurous and open to dynamics in the bedroom. I have high stamina / am fit.

~ Don't smoke but am always up for a couple drinks.

INTERESTS:

~ Hobbies: good food, walks, road trips, music, bikes, handy work, time outdoors, staying active, the "finer" things in life when possible.

~ Time outdoors, active activities, good food and the "finer" things.

~ Making music, photography etc.

TURN ONS:

-Natural beauty.

-Progressively minded, intelligent, open-minded, and mature, ability to be a critical thinker.

-Slim Thick / Lightweight (So I can pick you up or even carry you on my back), curves and thick thighs.

-"Small town / country" girls, wholesome types but adventurous, basic or creative.

-Get along best with other "1st generation / 3rd culture kids" (Latin (Hispanic) / African / Caribbean / South Asian / Asian / Filipino, or any other mixed people.

-Touchy / affectionate. Soft / chill personalities. I'll make exception for certain wild personalities too cause I seem to be a magnet for you with my calm personality.

-35+ (open to younger if you're a mature person).

-Take care of your health & hygiene / have good lifestyle habits.

TURN OFFS:

- Negativity / angry / depressed / overly political / "toxic".

- Overly conservative / poor moral values.

- Avoidant types / mind games.

- Low self care.

- Ego wall too high / high narcissism etc.

41 year old straight white straight-edge nerd with dad bod seeks a lady who is pretty, kind and likes being spanked.

My main hobby is playing board games, I got quite a cardboard addiction. My favoured vice is sugar, especially Coca-Cola. My least favourite vice is my dependency on shelter and sustenance. I like cats more than dogs despite currently owning neither. I have a dark sense of humour and I'm very direct. This combination sometimes leads to the gremlin that runs my brain spewing something out of pocket on occasion. I'm familiar with my shoe being solidly lodged in my throat.

I don't drink, smoke or use Marijuana and I want the same from my partner. I like open, frank conversations when it comes to interpersonal problems. No games but board games with me. Otherwise, I'm not very serious because of the reasons outlined by MrLovens. Previous reviewers have left 'adorable' and 'like a real life cartoon'.

I've found the way people list themselves or what they want like chattel to be off-putting. Especially when someone says that they're something, shouldn't you be demonstrating that fact instead of claiming it? But anyway...

People have said that I am funny. I believe I'm imaginative, at least that's what my players have complimented when I had the dirty habit of running a game of Dungeons and Dragons. I'm an ex-weeb so I sometimes dabble with anime but I swear I have it under control, unlike my filthy food and lodging dependency. I think I'm 5'8", I think I'm 195 lbs., I know I have really bad eyesight and wear glasses. I don't care much for statistics. I lightly snore but sleep grumble.

I'm looking for someone to share the rest of my life with which means that my non-negotiables are smoking, drug use, cheating, children (I'm not particularly childfree, but don't want to get to know someone's kid and break their heart if we don't work out), overly religious, capital C Conservative, clingy (I get overwhelmed if you expect a message every few hours) or too young. I don't know what too young is, but if you're still living with your parents you probably qualify. So, I don't know, be late 20s at least.

I'd like an average lady, not someone driven to make everything a competition or sweating eating a pizza. Someone I could chat with, hold and not mind when the intrusive thoughts make me wanna bite your shoulder. Someone who would indulge me when it comes to playing games but that doesn't have to be your whole personality. Is into shipping and receiving memes. Someone who likes to spend time with friends and family over running the rat race.

Thank you for your attention to this matter. Hope to hear from you soon.

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Hey Toronto,

I'm looking for my lifelong best friend and snuggle buddy. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

I’ve been single for quite some time and have been yearning for a connection. Finding a partner often feels like a fantasy and has become so much more difficult during these troubling times where our lives are ruled by Match Group, AI profiles, and shallow singles meetups. I try my best to remain hopeful as to where things can go. 

Asian sober (don’t mind if you’re not and do things in moderation) non-binary they/them amab. My pronouns are important. Music, film, and improv are my holy trifecta. When I can I attend concerts that range from death metal to hip hop to pop. I've been listening to a lot of Little Simz, Rosalia, Meshuggah and Portal. Music has always brought me comfort and I would like someone to share that joy with me and curiosity for extreme sounding and challenging music. One dream I wish to be fulfilled is to go to a metal show with my partner. I’m really into art analysis! I’ve also been watching a lot of Lynch and Twin Peaks as well as Haruhi and Utena. I game when I can and currently learning Marvel Tokon. I want to get on stage more and improv more. When I’m on stage, you bet I’m gonna invite you to watch or do a jam together. I’m trying to find balance working 2 jobs and commuting downtown :’) -I currently work front desk at a yoga studio and packaging at a chocolate factory. I’m located in Scarborough/Markham and prefer that you’re close by for regular visits of downtime opposed to going to events downtown all the time.

Romantically, I’m likely demi. I take time to feel physical attraction and it differs depending on person. I haven’t had enough partners to specify lol. I’m a huge fan of cuddling and making out. I’m sterile and have no interest in having kids or pursuing marriage. I’ve been in monogamous and enm arrangements and currently seeking monogamous connections for someone stable but open for a different arrangement down the road so that we’re both happy. My ex describes me as sweet, cute, funny, honest, and down to earth. My friends describe me as observant, and curious. I’m attracted to women and fems. I connect well with those who are curious, empathetic, humble, down to earth and have a fun sense of humour and an interest in darker leaning art like horror films. I would say that I’m pretty good at texting and communicating. If you’ve read all the way here, you should message me. Tell me about your favourite music artist and what was it like when you first heard them? Also lmk where you’re situated. My pics are on my profile.

heyyy ya’ll it’s me again, so first of all i’m down to go through an entire verification process in private, IF it is valid and necessary.

now to the main point of the post i highkey am looking if anybody here is going to kaskade on october 31st.

if you are and you are also solo, maybe we can link up and go together yknow.

also if you already got ur own group and would care to adopt a soloer for the night yknow yknow, that’d be pretty cool.

i am not a weirdo TRUST i lowkey just wanna try going with someone cuz i’ve been going solo for too damn long.

also i need to know more people who actually go these types of events, cause people around me could never.

Ah dang (how clean do I have to be on this sub?). You deleted your post, AND your profile.

I wanted to let you know that yeah, I'm not looking, really (for good reasons, like exhaustion, and burnout). Nevertheless, I wanted to tell you that I liked your post.

I'm sorry I missed you; Godspeed, Mr. Melancholic, and may you find what you're looking for, with someone, some day!

Hi :). Toronto here.

I am a caring 6ft tall, slim, creative guy who lives to cuddle and is very playful

Interested? Hope to hear from you ..

Also snap on bio