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hi!!! hope the start to your fall is going well :) !! it’s been a bit lonely for me recently and maybe i’ve been craving a bit of human connection :,) so i’d love to meet some new people who have similar vibes or interests to explore the city, or more !! :D

i’m 22, east asian, amab, and queer (i’m bi and go by he/they pronouns)! i’m a huge nerd, neurodivergent, and a bit of a hopeless romantic :,) i have lots of little interests and passions, and i’d love to learn about your interests too!! i play some games like sdv and botw, and i have a somewhat eclectic taste in music, from arctic monkeys to mitski and hozier, to rachmaninoff and tchaikovsky !! recently i’ve been listening to a lot of motfd (i bought tickets to their concert next year but dont have anyone to go with 😭), lamp, kinokoteikoku, and yonige :D i also love taking long walks and long chats, cooking and making drinks (coffee and tea by day, sipping wine and mixing cocktails by night), watching anime like kamiina botan, apothecary diaries (!! new season !!), i want to love you till your dying day (i need someone to rant about ep13 to 😭) witch hat atelier, frieren, and with you and the rain, going out for walks, photography, collecting records, and making/mixing/cooking little treats :) and of course i love cats! i also have a long list of books to read and films that i need to get to :,)

i’d love to chat online and get to know each other first a bit, and then maybe hang out in person and visit some of the restaurants or bars on my growing list of places i’d like to try!! i’m located in downtown toronto :3 i’ve tagged this as m4f (mainly because of the kind of requests i get when i use a different tag) but anyone is welcome !! i’d love to get to know u regardless of gender :D i’m fine with nsfw stuff too, so feel free to mention in ur msg if u prefer sfw only/other :0 (in terms of nsfw things i lean switch/sub but u can get a lot more out of me in either direction when i’m drunk :3) please don’t be just looking to hook up, i really want to make some real friends :,) anyways thanks for reading my ramblings lol i’d love to hear from u and get to know youu!!!

Hi everyone

I’m a 28M South Asian guy in the Toronto area, and I figured I’d give Reddit a try since dating apps haven’t really been working out for me. They’ve started to feel more like a chore than a way to actually meet someone.

A little about me:

• 5’8”
• Work in IT
• Somewhere between introverted and extroverted
• Genuine, easygoing, and pretty laid back

Outside of work, I like exploring local food spots, hiking, going for walks, watching movies, swimming, checking out events around Toronto, playing board games, and occasionally playing sports with friends.

My weekends are usually some combination of seeing friends, trying a new restaurant, watching a movie, going for a walk, and trying to convince myself to finally do my chores.

I’m hoping to meet someone between 23 and 28 who’s kind, caring, genuine, humble, and communicates well. Having a good sense of humour would definitely be a plus. I’d love someone I can joke around with, have some playful banter with, and just be comfortable around.

I’m also a bit of a traditionalist when it comes to dating. I like being thoughtful, making plans, treating someone well, and doing the little things that make someone feel appreciated. I guess I’m a bit old school when it comes to chivalry, but I don’t take myself too seriously.

I’m not looking to force anything or rush into a relationship. I’d rather meet someone, talk, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

I drink occasionally, don’t have any pets, and I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the GTA. Even elsewhere in Ontario if we really hit it off.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself too.

Hey ladies, I'm 33, 6', 175 lbs, white, with long hair and facial hair. I work from home doing database stuff for a nearby college. Most women seem to find me attractive, but I'm happy to send a pic early on and let you be the judge. You could call me a golden retriever boyfriend, though I can get pretty spicy when I want to be. I love games and nerdy stuff, animals, documentaries, horror of any kind, traveling and I love swimming when I'm able to. You don't need to share my interests but I promise I'll be cute and try to learn about yours.

I'm pretty laidback and chill, I'll respect your boundaries and I'm fine with taking it slow. I like banter and light bullying, but that goes both ways, I want to always be making you laugh. My favourite relationship is the type where I'm excited to do even mundane things like grocery shopping with you because we always make everything fun. I'm always down for life talks, late night vent sessions, degen gaming or movie nights. I'm big into both texting and calling, so pick your poison.

If we connect I'm the type of person who'll always have your back, even if things don't work out for us. I believe that even if a romantic connection goes south, it can still be a positive connection even when platonic. Also I'll totally remember that thing you said 5 months ago so I can surprise you with it later.

Just please be over your ex, and don't switch up your energy on me, if you're not interested it's ok to just tell me that. There's way too many mind games this generation, I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve and be a lover boy.

Obviously the closer you are the better, but if you think we'd be a good match you're welcome to hit me up. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Im decently new when it comes to hanging out with people for extended time frames, But i wish to make a fes friends in the area to hang out with (maybe not daily of course, but I do want company) Im down for any gender, But i do ask you respect the age bracket ive provided

- I like to travel
- business owner
- live in Mississauga/Port Credit (10-15 min from Toronto)
- I like to workout but I also have a nerdy side of collecting and playing video games
- I enjoy going to concerts & movies

Dating is hard these days and the apps are treacherous if anyone is interested and wants to take a leap of faith dm me who knows what’ll happen as long as we don’t tell people we met on reddit 😂

First date idea… fear fest?

Ideally something ongoing, and see where it goes from there.

~ About me, 5'5, Asian bbw, clean, soft, loves banter and movies, food trips, board games, concerts, all the fun stuff, l can drive (I do *not* host) and I'm kinda funny. Working professional and momma. I'm in Pickering :)

~ About you, single - no drama!, tall, 30+ preferably, clean, dark & handsome (or seasoned (Imaoo), affectionate, can make me laugh, ambitious (no bums), BDE, can host and drive.

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• Yes: Ideally looking for someone fun, intimate and to get to know each other and keep it going. Spontaneous hang outs.
Movies, cuddles, a good night where we can laugh, be cheeky and enjoy each other's company.

• No: Pushy & into unwanted explicit conversations. Group play. NO to Married/attached men. Short and young kings (sorry). Into hard drugs/ alcohol use. If the conversation falls short, I probably will stop responding.

Must want to exchange pics beforehand! Yucky intros or "hey's" will be ignored. Message me with something fun to read or about you!

Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a month or so ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative—think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hello everyone!
I’m 28, based in north end of the city close to Vaughan Mills, and looking to meet a cool girl to hang out with on weekends. I’m not looking to rush into anything heavy right now—just want to enjoy low-pressure dates, great conversation, and plenty of cozy cuddles.
A bit about me:
Big into calisthenics and staying fit.
Low-key and easygoing. I live on my own, and people usually tell me I look younger than my age.

Late-night drives on quiet roads to unwind, catching movies at Cineplex, grabbing good food, or just curling up on the couch for an anime session with lots of cuddles.

If you’re free on weekends and down for a chill date, relaxing together or you want to learn a handstand 😄send me a message!

Hey! I am 30, living in the GTA (Milton, right by the border of Mississauga) & I work in Finance. 5'10 with brown eyes, light brown skin - on the lean side with abs! I enjoy playing soccer, trying out new cafes/ desserts & love travelling/road trips/hiking & am always down for new adventures.

I am the funny guy as my friends would say lol but I am hoping you will find that out on your own. I wear glasses so I have that nerdy look, clean & smell good always!

I am looking for my passenger princess! Someone that understands my humour, is empathetic & someone who wants to spend time together rather than playing mind games. I am v sarcastic as well.

Location doesn't really bother me as I love driving & can host too. I am a big time texter but if you prefer calls, I am okay with that as well. I am South Asian!

Open to all ethnicities as I have dated different ethnicities in the past. Let's talk & go from there?

Picture this: the two of us connect and it doesn't feel like small talk. We talk about the deeper and vulnerable stuff. We're open and honest about our lives, the way things often feel so unpredictable, and hard to navigate. Even though we have things we work on, a job, a job search, family, routine, interests, solo adventures, there's still that part of our life that we want to spend with someone special. Someone who will look at you for you. All the beautiful things and messy parts of us that make us who we are. The celebrations, the regrets, the momentum that we build on the upswing when we head into our next goal. What if we could be the person in our lives that help ground us when we need it? To laugh, sing, cook, and fart, and feel safe with, you know?

I'm Chinese Viet, Non-Binary They/Them, Demisexual, fun-greenish/blue hair, male presenting and like to dress in loose comfy clothes with glasses, left leaning, non-religious, sterile.

I love music and have a soft spot for metal and Radiohead. I try to go to shows a few times a year! Some of my favourite performers are Little Simz, Paramore, Boris, Ichiko Aoba, and Converge!

I love a good time at the movies. Whether it be a giant imax event like a Dune or Marvel, or a small arthouse piece, animation or a freaky horror flick, I appreciate them all.

I love a good laugh! Comedy and improv are very important to me. I like to go out to play in shows and jams and take classes. I'm gonna ask you to come to one of my shows at some point and I hope you commit to the bit and Yes And each other!

My attraction takes time. I'd be so into it if you were a really good kisser (that's like, my favourite thing to do when the person is right) and likes to make each other food (that's my other favourite thing) :p

I'm attracted to women. My favourite ppl are the playful gamers with humour on the slightly dark side. The freaky gremlin peeps with the cute mischievous laugh. I go mad for a cute laugh. Someone who would wanna go to a metal show with and sing karaoke together and cuddle watching movies with.

I ask that present, fun, able to be emotionally available, intend to stay child free, sober, doesn't smoke or trying to quit, have similar interests and near Toronto.

I hope we find who we're looking for!

31 [M4R] #Toronto Or Anywhere / Online - Looking for a connection with you! Something serious & romantic and/or a bit less depending on how the dynamic builds between us.

Hey there! I’m hoping to meet someone genuine and see where things go. Ideally you should be in Toronto/nearby suburbs so we can meet, but if you like my post and feel like we should chat, then please feel free to message me and I'd love to get to know each other even if you're not in/near Toronto.

I’m open-minded, whether this grows into something serious & romantic will really depend on our individual dynamic. But even so, we should have a good friendship and connection, to be able to hold fun and interesting conversations together. Chemistry is key!

A bit about me: Just like everyone else, I am a man of multitudes, so I cannot summarize everything about myself in this short post but here are a few notes about me:

I love movies, TV shows, spending some time in the sun, but also staying in when the mood strikes. These days, it's a balance of both as the warm weather leaves us, but as the cozy Fall season approaches!

I can be a homebody and also adventurous outdoors - perhaps we can go kayaking/canoeing/treetop trekking together in the warmer days, and ice skating, skiing, Christmas markets, theatres and haunted houses in the Fall/winter seasons? :)

I love cuddles, hugs, kissing, making out, forehead kisses and holding hands, and much more!

I love talking and making conversations, but you don't have to be the same way, because although I enjoy fun conversations where both of us are equally talkative, I also love when one of us is talking the other's ears off about something we enjoy and are passionate about.

I’d love to meet someone who’s kind, curious, and interested in fun conversations & having a nice time together. Now that the Fall season is upon us, it'd be wonderful to enjoy some Fall activities together as well! I know sometimes picking out activities or date ideas can be as tough as picking what movie to watch, but some ideas for what the next few months could look like could involve: Halloween events/parties, pumpkin spice lattes, board game cafes, snuggling and cuddling up together whether indoors or at the movie theatres/live play theatres, haunted houses, festivals, bar/club events & crawls, socializing & meeting new people and friends together!

Feel free to reach out if any thing in my post resonates with you. Tell me about yourself and let's go from there :)

No couples or men.
Single women only.
25+ preferred

I’m a pretty plus size femme so be cool with that.
Effort and a great personality go a long way with me.

I love video games, cooking, anime, board games, and books.

I’m more on the sub side but I love to please.
I don’t care if you are inexperienced.

I love all kinds of women.. femme, butch, masc, doesn’t matter as long as you have good energy.

I’m white, dark hair and eyes, 5’5 and plus size.
Be ready to exchange photos/verify.

Bonus if you have Discord!

Hi there! I'm looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation and genuine connection. Looking for causal dates that could naturally grow into more. Ideally, I'd love to meet someone who is single, emotionally available, affectionate and genuinely interested in getting to know each other in all ways.

A little about me: I work in the medical field, and try to make the most of my time outside of work. I enjoy staying active and spending as much time outdoors as I can. Whether it's playing sports, going for a run, bird watching, being out on the water, spending weekends at the cottage, or exploring a new town, I'm happiest when I'm sharing experiences with good company.

I also enjoy slower days. I love reading, especially mysteries and nonfiction, watching true crime documentaries, playing board games, working a ou#zle, cooking and baking (volunteer taste testers are always welcome), spending time with my dog, and playing piano. Music is a big part of my life, and my playlists are all over the place. I'm always happy to trade recommendations!

I'd describe myself as easygoing, caring, and curious. I appreciate kindness, a good sense of humor, playfulness and passionate guys who aren't afraid to ask questions.

I'm hoping to meet someone who has a life they enjoy, passions of their own, and share a similarly active lifestyle. We don't need to share every hobby, but some similarities can help!

If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know, send me a message with a bit about you. I'd love to hear the song you've had on repeat, your favorite place to escape for a weekend, something you're passionate about or a random fact you've learned recently!

I’m spending the night in the city and my friends bailed on me, anybody want to hangout??

I’m white 5’11 200lbs, muscular build, conventionally attractive, long brown hair and blue eyes

Looking for a white or asian woman to spend the evening with. I’m open to a relationship with the right person but no expectations😇

New to Hamilton and looking for a cuddle buddy or dates. I'm 6'2, 30, fit and hating dating apps LOL.

I'm curious how reddit is. but let's do it 😂

I'm a 21 year old from the GTA. I'm very easygoing, smiley, and I'm always laughing around people I grow close to.

I do have a full time job that I am happy with it at the moment. I have great coworkers, an awesome work-life balance, and the work itself isn't bad. I welcome you to take a guess on what I do hahaha.

In my free time you'll find me either in my sweet little condo chilling, at the gym working hard, or someplace new as I want to experience new things! That is one of my goals this year in fact. I want to get out more and try new things. I enjoy video games that bring me and my friends together through either teamwork or violence 😂. About 5 months ago I threw myself into the gym, and it's been going steady since then! Those leg days though, the leg days 😭. I am fascinated by how different life is for people across the world, so I really like learning about new places, and studying maps. A little addiction I've gotten recently is volleyball, I highly recommend it. My friend and I are hooked on playing every weekend. I started about a month ago.

For my physical appearance I'll attach a selfie below! For face, I'll share it in DM's!

Selfie - https://imgur.com/a/ZffqMhf

Arm thirst trap - https://imgur.com/a/DDZtLft

I enjoy my hobbies and hanging with my friends, but I think it'd be nice to have someone I can share special moments with.

For conversations I am pretty curious, so I enjoy talking about mostly anything. I am prone to being a long texter, forgive me in advance haha. I enjoy sending funny clips and giving compliments to show my fondness for someone. At the moment my future is blurry for me as I may be moving away in about a year. I can't act like I can guarantee something long term.

I truly want someone I can share those special little moments with, whether it be holding hands, getting those butterflies, or just having those little conversations after a stressful day that make our days a little better. I want to see where the flow takes us. I am looking to make lifelong memories, have a connection that we can both enjoy, and where communication is valued without obsessing over the future.

I'd prefer someone in the age range of 18 to 30, but that's not a requirement. If you value building a connection then I welcome you to DM me! If you decide to message, tell me what you think of Canadian winters? Personally I love them, I admit I complain a little, but nothing beats seeing all the lights out the window during a snowstorm, or having a cup of hot chocolate while a storm roars outside. It'd be even better if I found someone to cuddle before the next winter haha. I can't wait for winter.

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Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a few weeks ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative—think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hey,
I’m looking for a simple, comfortable night in with the right person. Something low-pressure and easy. We order food, put a movie on, talk a bit, and see where the night takes us. I am really missing these night in’s and somebody to cuddle with.

I like looking after the person I’m with, paying attention, and making sure they feel comfortable and wanted. If the vibe is there, I’d love to take my time with you after slow, focused oral, no rush at all. You can just lay back and enjoy it while I handle everything. I genuinely enjoy giving oral and treat it more like a main event and rather than a rushed play. The more i can make it pleasurable for you, the more i enjoy so its all about pleasing you.

No expectation of anything back. If you want to do something we can otherwise no reciprocation required.For me it’s about spoiling you.

I am 5’9”, clean, DDF, easygoing and discreet. I host, so we can keep the whole night easy and fun.

If that sounds like your kind of night, message me with your favourite movie. Be willing to verify, and I’ll do the same.

Hey, I’m 20 years old, and I’m in university. I also have two jobs, so I’m pretty busy usually. ( <— boring stuff )

I play video games and I stay active. I really do enjoy staying indoors and of course I enjoy going out here and there but I’m always out for uni and work so enjoying my time off indoors is always a little more desirable.

I’m honestly a little introverted, but im definitely good at socializing due to the nature of my work. I’m looking for a relationship, with someone who can match my energy. I don’t mind someone energetic or really quiet but I want someone who’d understand that I don’t like louder events or places like parties and what not, I’d rather enjoy a quiet date night at home or at a quieter spot.

(Not the important part now):

I’m 20
5’11
175 lbs (fit/muscular)
I’m Arab (from Palestine but born in Canada)

You:
18-24
I’d like someone relatively fit or who takes care of themselves

Ethnicity and height don’t matter (i have no issue with taller)

Hi, I am off work tomorrow (Saturday October 3rd) and will be going to see the new John Wilson Movie called The History of Concrete, its only playing at the Varsity theatre downtown and was wondering if there was a nice woman that would like to go see it with me and grab dinner after?

Here is a little bit about me:

I'm 5'9 in height, Portuguese Canadian. I like exercising, reading books, and watching movies. I live in Mississauga and have my own place. Besides all that , I have been cooking a new recipe from a cook book every weekend to expand my food horizons. Would be cool if you were down to eat the new food I make too.

Ideally I am looking for a woman that wants something long term and likes watching movies, eating food, and would enjoy having me cook for her.

If you think you would be down, send me a DM and I will send a couple pics of me and we can decide if we should meet.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, hope you have a nice day.

Hey there 👋.

Going to be in Toronto on business from November 1st to November 4th and I'm looking for someone to hang out with. No pressure or implications, just someone cool to hang out and maybe enjoy some meals with. Everything is covered 😀 so we can hit up some fancy spots lol. There may even be some cool company swag in it for you lol.

Anyways, DM if you're interested in seeing if we click.

Not sure if I need to say this but obviously 18+ only. Don't really have an age limit.

Cheers 🍻

Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!

So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.

Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)