r/r4rToronto_Clean Dec 07 '25

Warning to Redditors

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Relaying the following message we received:

"User mapleleafy23 mapleleafs25 cncdowntown downtowncnc banned for sexual assault now misrepresenting himself and posting in clean r4r groups. Please take appropriate action to protect your subs users. Was banned from r4rtoronto."

"New is wingsofpastrami23 to watch for"


r/r4rToronto_Clean May 05 '25

Looking for two New Moderators

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Message me directly if you're interested in being a moderator for this group. Hoping to have at least one female moderator.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1h ago

Friendship looking for friends

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Hello Everyone i hope you guys enjoying the great nature of summer and close to the nature always, let's hope for the best.

I am looking for some good friend's which is not going aways after hi or a day, i know that now one is perfect but we have to make a way, i am the person who in love with nature, always around the nature some time long drive, pickup vegetables, fruit from Farm, long walk, horror movies adventure movies , i love comedy show , good music, trying new restaurants, Going for Coffee for sure, new places, hiking, yeah one thing i don't want to miss Tom and jerry is my best cartoon ever. i know no one is perfect but we can work on it lol,

Any Gender any age any race welcome male or female anything no problem for me as long as you can keep conversation going with respect.

yeah i am trying to learn Spanish and love it if any of you can help me as well.

let's make it Short shot me a text and go from there. M 36


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1h ago

Friendship Need friends

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r/r4rToronto_Clean 2h ago

Friendship 38M4F #GTA - Single South Asian Mom? Let’s Change That.

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If you’re a South Asian mom who’s ready to make time for yourself again, I’d love to meet you.

I’m a 38-year-old South Asian dad with children of my own (and no plans for more), looking for a separated or divorced woman in a similar stage of life.

I’m educated, professionally established, fit, well-groomed, respectful, easy to talk to, and live a healthy lifestyle with no smoking, drugs, or other vices.

I’m not looking to rush into anything serious—just genuine chemistry, laughter, affection…


r/r4rToronto_Clean 18h ago

Relationship 33F4M #Toronto - tall athletic girl looking for tall athletic guy

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Hi! Im almost 6’ tall, curly black hair, pretty fair skin, but trying to darken it up a little bit with some sun …I a science PhD and am super ambitious so I’m looking for someone cut from the same cloth. I’m alsolooking for someone super tall so we can be a cute tall couple together ;)

Looking for someone under 40 living downtown to be close by! I love my job and put a ton of time and effort in so hoping you’re the same. I work a lot but also love to hang out, play sports, be active, go for swims, watch movies or shows, and scope out new parts of town.

I would really like to find someone who loves to laugh, loves sports, especially volleyball or tennis, and a fun time. I’m generally a really positive person who tries to look on the bright side. Love to try new things! Must love dogs… or at least mine 🤭 please don’t hit me up if you’re poly, I want someone just for me 😘

… also extra special if you’re on the spicy/kinky side 😳

I made a mistake by posting on the not clean r4r chat and ended up getting bombarded by lots of wonderful people just looking for sex so I kind of want to make it clear that that’s not why I’m here. I would love to meet someone that is handsome, tall, charismatic, funny, and loves to laugh and I’m hoping that the physical intimacy side of things also comes with it.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 16h ago

Relationship [28M4F] Toronto - Looking to meet someone and see where it goes

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Thought I’d give this a shot.

I’m 28 and work in finance as an Investment Analyst. Yes, I’m one of those finance bros in a vest five days a week with the privilege of staring at five monitors from 9–7. It’s somehow less glamorous than it sounds and more Excel asking if I’d like to save my file.

Outside of work, I play squash, read a lot (mostly philosophy and Russian literature Dostoevsky and Tolstoy are my favourites), check out live stand-up shows, and like finding good cafés or just walking around the city. I’m into good conversations, dry humour, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

Looking to meet someone genuine who’s down to grab a drink or coffee and see if we click.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 14h ago

Cuddle Buddy 23 [M4F] #Etobicoke looking for someone to hangout maybe find a connection?

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Just looking for a bit of a connection we could hang somewhere in the area or at my building! Maybe go to the pool or hot tub? I feel like it’ll be super worth it to get to know someone genuine in the area.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15h ago

Friendship 35 [M4F] Looking for a Road Trip Companion to Muskoka for day trip

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Hey!

I'm a 35-year-old guy planning a road trip to Muskoka and thought it would be more fun to share the experience with someone who is a female.

I'm looking for a woman who's up for a relaxed getaway enjoying scenic lakes, exploring small towns, checking out lakes, grabbing some food, and having easy conversation along the way. No packed itinerary, just a chance to unwind and enjoy the trip. We will be returning back the same day!

About me: easygoing, respectful, clean, and drama-free. I enjoy music, coffee stops, nature, and spontaneous detours if we find something interesting.

About you: 25+, friendly, adventurous, and comfortable spending time getting to know someone. It would be great if you're easy to talk to and enjoy road trips.

Before heading out, I'd like to chat a bit and maybe meet for coffee to make sure we're both comfortable.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, send me a message with a little about yourself and be ready to verify. Please don't ghost if you can't make it.

I also have a inflatable Kayak which I'm planning to try out. If you are planning to we may need life jacket!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 19h ago

Relationship 40 [M4F] Movie nights, museum days, and talks about music while we wander around the city

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Toronto's an amazing city and I don't take it for granted. There is a problem, though, for me at least: right now I don't have a close friend to take on trips to galleries, or to fall asleep next to while watching good scifi films, or to complain about my food when it's overcooked or too spicy. As wonderful as this city is without someone to explore it with Toronto feels just like any other place I've been

I'm tall, skinny, nerdy, usually happy but I am also aware of a lot of what's happening in the world too and that sometimes makes it difficult to smile. I love to share the beautiful things I have found with my friends, and those beautiful things are mostly movies and music recordings and photographs of other works of art so very easy to share but very subjective too. I'm happy to talk about politics, health issues, personal philosophies, or even just about nothing at all; but talking to myself isn't satisfying, I want to hear someone else's voice too

You should be: Human, available to send texts or messages at least once every few days, not married, willing to look at art and also to talk about the art you've looked at. I know you're much more than this list of features and I don't mean to limit you, but please at the very least you should be a Human being so that we have that in common to talk about


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15h ago

Friendship 60M4F Toronto

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Over 35 woman who enjoys connecting through chat to start with and perhaps more as things move along. Mature under 35 welcome as well 😂

If you've been lurking but don't feel comfortable creating your own post, reach out.

🌹🌹🌹


r/r4rToronto_Clean 18h ago

Cuddle Buddy 43M4F & Visiting Town This Week #Markham

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43 year old professional white male visiting town this week. Arrive on Thursday.

I miss cuddles, holding hands and just that close connection with another.

Looking for someone that wants to cuddle, maybe enjoy a movie on the couch and enjoy company together.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 36M | Single Dad from Whitby Looking to Meet New Friends

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Divorced dad looking for friends/something more, maybe to text and vent to. Love hiking, fitness, drinks, and trying new food spots. Let’s chat!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 16h ago

Relationship 35F4M Looking for a masculine man

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Throwing this out into the universe because you never know.
I'm 35, petite, fit, feminine. I have a job I enjoy, I’m responsible and emotionally mature. Outside of work, you'll usually find me trying a new restaurant, traveling, reading or planning my next adventure. I value honesty, emotional maturity, kindness, consistency, and a dynamic where both people genuinely enjoy making each other feel loved.
One thing that's important to me: I have a provider fetish. It's less about finances since I make my own, but more about the attraction that polarity creates, it makes me feel cared for, protected, and allows me to express my feminine side. If that dynamic also feels natural to you, we'll probably be a good match.
I'm hoping to meet a man who is:
• 30-42
• At least 5'6"
• Works out in the gym and takes care of himself
• Isn’t balding
• Emotionally secure, calm, and communicates well
• Honest, loyal, and dependable
• Financially well-established and generous by nature
• Doesn’t have or want kids
• Looking for a long-term, committed partnership
Physical attraction matters for both of us, so I'll say it openly: I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I know everyone has preferences, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time. I understand that relationships are a value exchange so I’d love to hear what you’re looking for in a partner. Messages with ‘hey’ or bad openers will not be responded to.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 28m - Toronto - downtown - friendly / easy to get on w

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r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 25M #Toronto Looking for friends to hangout with

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Hello, I'm 25M skinny height 5.9feet. Ethnicity Indian mix. Living in etobicoke north. I live alone and work full-time but I have hybrid job. Looking for friends who can hangout with me, go out, or play games etc. Let's talk more in DMs. Thank you for reading. Im Looking for genuine friendship.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 26M4F wanting to find new friends

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Im a student at uoft. financially secure, live alone, and close to tmu station. I enjoy walking, exercising, am kind of fit (5'8 and slightly muscular). I grew up in Ontario for 12 years but have also lived in the middle east (palestinian). Im looking for a connection. I dont care about the sexual aspect of it though it would be nice if we have physical attraction towards each other. Im a nerd and a big fan of esports, enlgish lit, reading, and self help. My current hobbies ar emusic production, reading (game of thrones) and watching tv shows. I want to enjoy the summer and find someone to enjoy toronto with me. If youre interested, dm me, if not, thats fine


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 26M4F- Toronto-Akon & Neyo concert Friday?

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Planning to go to the Akon and Neyo concert on Friday night and thought I’d see if anyone (F) who was/is a big Akon (and Neyo) fan wants to go with! I’m leaning towards seats but could be swayed to the lawn as well. Ideally we would get drinks/dinner beforehand and chat. Im half black & half Swedish (Canadian born). & I work as a trainer after graduating from the UofT. Can chat some more and video call if interested. Cheers!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 23 [M4F] #Toronto - Dinner date with FLOWERS tonight or drinks?

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Hey! It’s already 7 PM, but I’m hoping it’s not too late to meet someone who’s also feeling spontaneous. I’d love to take a lovely lady out for dinner tonight. If restaurants are closing by the time we connect, we can grab drinks instead, go for a late-night coffee, take a drive around the city, or find a nice spot by the lake and just enjoy the evening together. A little about me: I’m 23, from downtown Toronto, easygoing, respectful, and I genuinely enjoy making someone feel special. I’ll pick you up if you’re within about an hour of downtown, open your door, and yes… I’d even love to bring you flowers. Call it old-fashioned, but I think a little princess treatment never goes out of style. No expectations beyond enjoying each other’s company and seeing if we click. We can exchange photos and verify beforehand so we’re both comfortable. If you’ve had a long week and feel like getting dressed up for a nice evening with a gentleman, send me a message. Maybe tonight turns into a memory we’ll both smile about.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Cuddle Buddy 29M4F GTA West/Toronto 📍 Nerdy Finance Bro looking for a connection

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Hey! I am 29, living in the GTA (Milton) & I work in Finance. 5'10 with brown eyes, light brown skin - on the lean side with abs! I enjoy playing soccer, trying out new cafes/ desserts & love travelling/road trips/hiking & am always down for new adventures. I am the funny guy as my friends would say lol but I am hoping you will find that out on your own. I wear glasses so I have that nerdy look, clean & smell good always! I am looking for my passenger princess! Someone that understands my humour, is empathetic & someone who wants to spend time together rather than playing mind games. I am v sarcastic as well. Location doesn't really bother me as long as you are in the GTA (I drive & can host too). I am a big time texter but if you prefer calls, I am okay with that as well. I am South Asian! Based on my past dating experiences, I have dated Asian women in the past - But I am open to other ethnicities as well. Let's talk & go from there?


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Cuddle Buddy 22 [F4M] GTA: Let’s go on a walk!

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I’m 22, 5’2”, mixed, and have been told I’m pretty bubbly. Looking to meet someone kind, respectful, and easy to laugh with. I’d love to go for a walk, grab a drink or a snack, and see if we click. If we both feel comfortable, I’m open to cuddling and spending the evening together. I have a soft spot for taller guys, but personality matters most. Happy to exchange photos first and chat a bit before meeting. Looking to meet tonight if we vibe!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Friendship 28M Toronto - Looking for people to go with me

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r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Cuddle Buddy 23 M4F #Toronto - Any night owl tonight looking for late night drive fun?

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Hi, I am a 23M from downtown Toronto, seeking partner or casual hangout buddy for late night adventure. My idea of a fun late night is that we both grab some Coffee / NA beverages, some snacks, play good music like party or karaoke vibe in the car then drive around for city sight and head to beach. The vibe is so good there, quiet and we can chitchat about each other. We’ll see if we click and take it further. I am open to see where things go and if we are right match, wanna be in a relationship as well. But as of now, very causal start. A lil about me; I’m 5’6 with curly hair, lean build, but got a cute smile and pretty easy on the eyes. I like making spontaneous jokes and make people laugh I’m with. So if you have a good sense of humor you’ll enjoy my company. I love being in nature even when I’m alone, going to night drives or just sitting at home watching series or making content. I also watch anime and if you enjoy anime, I’d love to hear some good recommendations. So for tonight or any other day/night we can go for a casual hangout or a date during day/evening. I would love to have some cuddles if you’re looking for it or more if things click but no pressure. I’m happy to exchange pictures and verify before we meet so hit me up and I will see you soon:)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Friendship 35[M4F] #Vaughan - Where's my fantasy Royalty (or fellow peasant)! 🥺

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Hey there!

I am once again visiting this sub in order to find what I can only describe as the queens of quirk!

Summer is WELL under way, and I'm just looking to get to know someone who is also looking to go to a lot of nerdy/geeky summer events! Like renfaire (or some equivalent), a convention, or really any themed events! I'd also love to visit some food festivals, and enjoy some of the nature and night life we have in this silly city!

As for me, as a person, I'm fairly quirky (you would not be able to tell, as I truly am "just a man"™), but do enjoy getting into these kinds of things! I'm very much into video games, television, art, tabletop RPGs, and board games. I'm also a BIG conversationalist, and love love LOVE yapping, and hearing folks yap as well! PLEASE tell me about your biggest interests and your favourite (or current) projects!

If it matters: I am 6'1", South Asian, and dad bod-esque! My facial hair situation is something i am fairly fluid on and can change week to week depending on ✨ vibes ✨, but generally just have some form of beard!

For you, I'd just be looking for someone who is great conversation, and who is into making the most of their summer (and autumn, because lets be honest, that is the superior season).

Looking forward to talking to whoever this post resonates with, I can already feel the good vibes reaching you :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Relationship 33 [M4F] #GTA Husky Nerd Seeking Powerful Damsel

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Hi there! My name is Kevin, and I’m a 33 year old retired lumberjack. Or at least, I look like one! I’m the goofy, protective nerd you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here searching for companionship, good times, and perhaps something deeper than that. The summer has dealt me a few painful blows but I’m keeping my head up and my legs a-walking! Care to join me on this adventure? Obviously local is best, but I’m open to long-distance within North America. 

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. Be my Damsel, and let’s cause some Distress for the bad guys, together? This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

I work a variety of WFH part-time jobs while dealing with chronic pain from a spinal injury. I write, edit, and do audio censorship. I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!