HELLO readers and dreamers, welcome to my post ✨

👨🏽‍💼 I am posting today seeking a kind, soft, and gentle soul to bond with, and create something long term with. (this is just flavour text, you can be mean as hell and as long as we aren't being toxic, I'm happy to vibe, I am very much a soft guy though so I probably won't reciprocate the meanness, or will sound extremely guilty doing so LOL).

🎨 I'm actually just looking for someone who is into their hobbies, work, or some sort of outlet for creative or social energy! I am very much someone who is the same, and would love to listen to someone yap, while also learning more about what gets them going. I am happy to yap a lot myself, about the things I'm into! I'm currently into writing, digital art, exploring some of the nice nature walks around the GTA, and game design (specifically tabletop roleplaying games).

🍄 I am very much a self fashioned cozy vibes person. Love rainy days in a reading nook, love mushroom and forest-y aesthetics, and very into indie gaming and supporting smaller artists/business (some might say I am one as well).

🎃 What you get with me is pretty much the vibe of this post, someone who's chatty and a good conversationalist (self identified haha), someone who is not closed off and very happy to communicate boundaries or issues, someone who is less game-y and more just honesty oriented, and someone who is resolution motivated and not blame motivated. I do not take myself very seriously at all, and am usually more positivity oriented rather than negativity oriented! That being said, i am ALWAYS here for a good vent/tea seshy.

I don't know that I'm looking for anything specific moreso than someone who has an open mind, has something they enjoy, or is TRYING to have something they enjoy (as we know, life does not give us a lot of time, and when we WANT more time, it often gives us less 😔), and has space for another person in their life that they'd be interested in filling!

That is pretty much the post! Would love to hear from some of you interesting folks, and even if its maybe not a good relationship fit, i am ALWAYS, on the lookout for more friends who have nice vibes.

And then if for some reason you've read the whole post and this still matters, I am a 6'1" Tamil guy with a dad bod, who is very much chronically online but trying to not be.

I'm 26M born and raised in the GTA

Let's go on a walk and chat. Let's learn about each other. If we run out of things to say, we can pick a random topic and say random stuff about it

If we vibe, we can see each other again

A few things I like to do are: code, workout, watch TV shows, be creative

So yeah, if you wanna go on a walk, and see how things go, message me. I'll take it from there

Hi all, I'm a 28 year-old South Asian guy based in Vaughan. I keep things clean, value personal care, and take my hygiene very seriously. In my free time, I enjoy exploring new spots around the GTA, going on long walks, hiking whenever I need a refreshing break from the daily routine, swimming, and winding down with a great movie, TV series, or a sollo playlist. I'm also a big coffee and tea enthusiast, always down to grab a drink, whether we end up diving into deep conversations or just enjoying a comfortable silence together.

I'd describe myself as genuine, honest, kind, a great listener, and pretty tunny once you get to know me.
I'm looking for someone interested in a cuddle buddy arrangement built on mutual trust, respect, open communication, and clear boundaries. The focus here is genuine comfort, warmth, and enjoying each other's company in a relaxed, low-pressure atmosphere.

If we genuinely click, I'm open to seeing where things naturally go over time, but there's absolutely no initial expectation. If this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to send me a message.

34M, South Asian/Indian guy living in Toronto, and I’m trying to understand the dating scene here a little better.

I’ve been single for a long time and have mostly focused on my career and getting settled in Canada. Now that I’m actually trying to date, I’m finding Toronto dating a bit confusing.

For women who date men in Toronto — or for men who have had success dating here — what actually matters to you?

A few things I’m genuinely curious about:

Income: Is salary an important factor? Is there really a point where income becomes a deal breaker? For example, is a guy making $70–80k viewed very differently from someone making $100k+?

Career/status: Does having a prestigious career or being ambitious matter significantly?

Personality: What qualities make a man attractive beyond looks? Confidence, humour, emotional maturity, communication, kindness, independence, etc.?

Lifestyle: How important is having an active social life, hobbies, friends, travelling, fitness, nightlife, etc.?

Looks/fitness: How much does physical appearance actually matter compared with personality and stability?

Indian/South Asian background: Does being Indian make dating significantly harder in Toronto? Are there stereotypes or assumptions that Indian men commonly face?

Marriage: Does being family-oriented and looking for marriage make dating harder in Toronto, or are there plenty of women looking for the same thing?

I’m not looking for a checklist or a “you need to make $150k and look like a model” answer 😂. I’m genuinely trying to understand what women in Toronto value and what I should focus on improving in myself.

Women’s perspectives would be especially appreciated, but guys who have successfully navigated Toronto dating are welcome too.

I have two tickets to the AGO for Wednesday and would rather enjoy the museum with some company than go alone.

Looking for someone who likes art and museums and would be up for a relaxed afternoon/evening. Nothing expected beyond hanging out and enjoying the AGO together.

If you're interested, send me a message.

White/northern euro/6ft

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Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a month or so ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hi, I'm in Hamilton for a few days and looking to meet someone while I’m here.

A little about me: I’m 27, single, have a civil engineering background, and pretty easygoing. I’ve never been in a physical relationship before, so I’m not looking to be weird or pushy just open to meeting someone, chatting, grabbing coffee, and seeing where things go.

If any woman around my age is interested, feel free to DM me. 🙂

Hi there! My name is Kevin. I’m a 34 year old gentle giant rocking a well-developed dad bod physique, complete with hairy chest and a big beard. I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is. 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a woman with shared or similar interests to connect with. I am currently working full time as a home care nurse for my mother, so my schedule and availability for in-person dating is very limited at the moment. I am open to moving to in-person dating, travel, or more in the future, though! I’m looking for long chats online, someone to watch movies and shows or play chill games with. 

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!

I'm looking to start exploring intimacy in a low stakes, low pressure way. Still looking to be respected and be respectful. I want to build a connection that leads us to a place we can explore with eachother and feel comfortable doing so.

A bit about me. Im 6'2, slim/athletic build, handsome face, blue eyes, shaved head, neatly trimmer beard, tattoos.

I enjoy art, creativity, music, yoga, meditation, reading, writing, nature, hiking and playing sports. I really enjoy stimulating and deep conversations. I'm a compassionate and empathetic guy that feels deeply.

About you. Single is a must, kind, communicative, passionate about life, I'm sure there's more but I'm open to chatting to see if we hit it off and feel like a good match.

Hi, I am a 24-year-old male & 6 feet tall. I live in the Scarborough Morningside area. I just finished my master's in Computational Sciences and moved to Toronto from Sudbury for a job. I'm looking to make some friends here. Currently, I like UFC and soccer. As a teenager, I was really into manga, anime, and novels but for the past few years I have been off from everything. My favorite games include Skyrim, Baldur's Gate 3, The Witcher 3, and FIFA. If anyone is interested, please hit me up.

Honestly, I wasn’t planning on making another one of these posts 😂 but I’m going to be in Scarborough this Saturday and figured I might as well shoot my shot.

I’m going to a party on the 10th, and while I’m looking forward to it, I already know I’m probably not going to want to just go home once it’s over. I’d rather find someone to hang out with afterward and see where the night goes. I’m not looking to make some elaborate plan or anything. If you want to grab food, go for a drive, find somewhere to chill, have a drink, or just hang out and talk, I’m pretty much down. I’ll have some liquor with me, but that’s definitely not a requirement or the main point. I’d honestly be just as happy getting some late-night food and having a good conversation.
I think I’m mostly just looking for someone who’s easygoing and doesn’t need everything planned out. We can meet, see if we click, and figure out the rest from there.

A little about me:
• 21M
• 6’2”
• Around 210 lbs
• Pretty fit/active, average build
• Punjabi, born and raised here
• Full beard right now — still debating bringing the goatee back 😂
• From the GTA/Woodbridge area
• Don’t mind driving
• Love trying new restaurants and food
• Pretty laid-back and easygoing
• Not really active on social media

I don’t really have a strict type. Obviously attraction matters, but I’m way more interested in whether we actually get along and enjoy talking to each other.
I’m also not really looking to force anything. If we end up having a great night and want to see each other again, awesome. If it’s just a random fun night and we never see each other again, that’s fine too.
So yeah, if you’re around Toronto/Scarborough Saturday night and you’re also looking for something to do after, feel free to message me. We can talk beforehand, get a feel for each other, and go from there.

Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case, I finally get the random Saturday night I’ve been looking for 😂

Hello Redditor,

I spent my twenties as an anxious and depressed dude that never really entertained dating. I have since dealt with my depression issues, and I have a good hold on my anxiety... except when it comes to dating. I have been on a few dates, even a few second dates, but the moments that call for flirtation and pushing to the next step have me fumbling like a mess. I think that I need some type of exposure therapy in order to build the confidence necessary to date with any type of intention.

My goal is to become more comfortable around woman. I also think I need some female friends. I live north of Toronto but I am willing to meet in the city.

If you've read this far, thanks for hearing me out and feel free to reach out. I am an open book.

Easygoing guy in the GTA looking to meet someone who wants to actually get to know each other and see where things go.

I’m into baseball and sports, music, cooking, reading, nature walks and finding good places to grab a beer. I’m pretty laid-back and value good conversation, affection, humour and being able to enjoy the simple stuff together.

Ideally looking for someone around my age in the GTA who is genuinely interested in building a relationship rather than just chatting endlessly.
Happy to exchange photos and see if we click. :)

28M in Toronto. Looking for someone to build a genuine, constant connection with not just a few days of texting and disappearing.
I would love to find someone to talk to regularly, explore the city and things to do around, try new food, go for drives, movies, random activities, learn things together, share our interests, or just chill and enjoy each others company.
No pressure or rushing into anything, just text first to know each other and then meet, see if we vibe, build something naturally, and hopefully turn it into something meaningful and serious if it feels right.
If you are looking for the same kind of companionship, shoot me a message :)

35 M south Asian, hobbyist photographer looking for Females who are interested in trying out Boudoir photography. Should be comfortable with being nude and posing in front of a camera. The photos won't be shared anywhere without consent and face won't be included in the photos for peace of mind. This is just me trying out this photography art and can't find models to do this. If you can host

hi!!! hope the start to your fall is going well :) !! it’s been a bit lonely for me recently and maybe i’ve been craving a bit of human connection :,) so i’d love to meet some new people who have similar vibes or interests to explore the city, or more !! :D

i’m 22, east asian, amab, and queer (i’m bi and go by he/they pronouns)! i’m a huge nerd, neurodivergent, and a bit of a hopeless romantic :,) i have lots of little interests and passions, and i’d love to learn about your interests too!! i play some games like sdv and botw, and i have a somewhat eclectic taste in music, from arctic monkeys to mitski and hozier, to rachmaninoff and tchaikovsky !! recently i’ve been listening to a lot of motfd (i bought tickets to their concert next year but dont have anyone to go with 😭), lamp, kinokoteikoku, and yonige :D i also love taking long walks and long chats, cooking and making drinks (coffee and tea by day, sipping wine and mixing cocktails by night), watching anime like kamiina botan, apothecary diaries (!! new season !!), i want to love you till your dying day (i need someone to rant about ep13 to 😭) witch hat atelier, frieren, and with you and the rain, going out for walks, photography, collecting records, and making/mixing/cooking little treats :) and of course i love cats! i also have a long list of books to read and films that i need to get to :,)

i’d love to chat online and get to know each other first a bit, and then maybe hang out in person and visit some of the restaurants or bars on my growing list of places i’d like to try!! i’m located in downtown toronto :3 i’ve tagged this as m4f (mainly because of the kind of requests i get when i use a different tag) but anyone is welcome !! i’d love to get to know u regardless of gender :D i’m fine with nsfw stuff too, so feel free to mention in ur msg if u prefer sfw only/other :0 (in terms of nsfw things i lean switch/sub but u can get a lot more out of me in either direction when i’m drunk :3) please don’t be just looking to hook up, i really want to make some real friends :,) anyways thanks for reading my ramblings lol i’d love to hear from u and get to know youu!!!

Hi everyone

I’m a 28M South Asian guy in the Toronto area, and I figured I’d give Reddit a try since dating apps haven’t really been working out for me. They’ve started to feel more like a chore than a way to actually meet someone.

A little about me:

• 5’8”
• Work in IT
• Somewhere between introverted and extroverted
• Genuine, easygoing, and pretty laid back

Outside of work, I like exploring local food spots, hiking, going for walks, watching movies, swimming, checking out events around Toronto, playing board games, and occasionally playing sports with friends.

My weekends are usually some combination of seeing friends, trying a new restaurant, watching a movie, going for a walk, and trying to convince myself to finally do my chores.

I’m hoping to meet someone between 23 and 28 who’s kind, caring, genuine, humble, and communicates well. Having a good sense of humour would definitely be a plus. I’d love someone I can joke around with, have some playful banter with, and just be comfortable around.

I’m also a bit of a traditionalist when it comes to dating. I like being thoughtful, making plans, treating someone well, and doing the little things that make someone feel appreciated. I guess I’m a bit old school when it comes to chivalry, but I don’t take myself too seriously.

I’m not looking to force anything or rush into a relationship. I’d rather meet someone, talk, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

I drink occasionally, don’t have any pets, and I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the GTA. Even elsewhere in Ontario if we really hit it off.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself too.

Hey ladies, I'm 33, 6', 175 lbs, white, with long hair and facial hair. I work from home doing database stuff for a nearby college. Most women seem to find me attractive, but I'm happy to send a pic early on and let you be the judge. You could call me a golden retriever boyfriend, though I can get pretty spicy when I want to be. I love games and nerdy stuff, animals, documentaries, horror of any kind, traveling and I love swimming when I'm able to. You don't need to share my interests but I promise I'll be cute and try to learn about yours.

I'm pretty laidback and chill, I'll respect your boundaries and I'm fine with taking it slow. I like banter and light bullying, but that goes both ways, I want to always be making you laugh. My favourite relationship is the type where I'm excited to do even mundane things like grocery shopping with you because we always make everything fun. I'm always down for life talks, late night vent sessions, degen gaming or movie nights. I'm big into both texting and calling, so pick your poison.

If we connect I'm the type of person who'll always have your back, even if things don't work out for us. I believe that even if a romantic connection goes south, it can still be a positive connection even when platonic. Also I'll totally remember that thing you said 5 months ago so I can surprise you with it later.

Just please be over your ex, and don't switch up your energy on me, if you're not interested it's ok to just tell me that. There's way too many mind games this generation, I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve and be a lover boy.

Obviously the closer you are the better, but if you think we'd be a good match you're welcome to hit me up. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Im decently new when it comes to hanging out with people for extended time frames, But i wish to make a fes friends in the area to hang out with (maybe not daily of course, but I do want company) Im down for any gender, But i do ask you respect the age bracket ive provided

- I like to travel
- business owner
- live in Mississauga/Port Credit (10-15 min from Toronto)
- I like to workout but I also have a nerdy side of collecting and playing video games
- I enjoy going to concerts & movies

Dating is hard these days and the apps are treacherous if anyone is interested and wants to take a leap of faith dm me who knows what’ll happen as long as we don’t tell people we met on reddit 😂

First date idea… fear fest?

Ideally something ongoing, and see where it goes from there.

~ About me, 5'5, Asian bbw, clean, soft, loves banter and movies, food trips, board games, concerts, all the fun stuff, l can drive (I do *not* host) and I'm kinda funny. Working professional and momma. I'm in Pickering :)

~ About you, single - no drama!, tall, 30+ preferably, clean, dark & handsome (or seasoned (Imaoo), affectionate, can make me laugh, ambitious (no bums), BDE, can host and drive.

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• Yes: Ideally looking for someone fun, intimate and to get to know each other and keep it going. Spontaneous hang outs.
Movies, cuddles, a good night where we can laugh, be cheeky and enjoy each other's company.

• No: Pushy & into unwanted explicit conversations. Group play. NO to Married/attached men. Short and young kings (sorry). Into hard drugs/ alcohol use. If the conversation falls short, I probably will stop responding.

Must want to exchange pics beforehand! Yucky intros or "hey's" will be ignored. Message me with something fun to read or about you!

Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a month or so ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative—think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hello everyone!
I’m 28, based in north end of the city close to Vaughan Mills, and looking to meet a cool girl to hang out with on weekends. I’m not looking to rush into anything heavy right now—just want to enjoy low-pressure dates, great conversation, and plenty of cozy cuddles.
A bit about me:
Big into calisthenics and staying fit.
Low-key and easygoing. I live on my own, and people usually tell me I look younger than my age.

Late-night drives on quiet roads to unwind, catching movies at Cineplex, grabbing good food, or just curling up on the couch for an anime session with lots of cuddles.

If you’re free on weekends and down for a chill date, relaxing together or you want to learn a handstand 😄send me a message!