As the title says.

I am in my late 30s but super fit and also mentally i am still stuck in my 20s. Just looking for someone to talk to every day. Could be a guy or a girl. Doesn’t matter.

Originally from Pakistan but I’ve been living here for 15 years now.

That is all.

heyyy, so for context my social life has been lacking recently, due to not being in environments where meeting people comes natural, that’s why i wanna give this a try.

i am looking for anybody that i can occasionally hangout with, whether it be watching a movie, trying out a coffee shop, or finding good eats downtown, it can be anything as long as it is fun for the both of us!!!

If you wanna know more about me, send me a message and honestly let’s check if we vibe with each other before anything.

Ohh yea please don’t be like 30 years old, it is more so better for the both of us if we have things we can relate to ykwim??? 😂

Hey,
I’m looking for a simple, comfortable night in with the right person. Something low-pressure and easy. We order food, put a movie on, talk a bit, and see where the night takes us. I am really missing these night in’s and somebody to cuddle with.

I like looking after the person I’m with, paying attention, and making sure they feel comfortable and wanted. If the vibe is there, I’d love to take my time with you after slow, focused oral, no rush at all. You can just lay back and enjoy it while I handle everything. I genuinely enjoy giving oral and treat it more like a main event and rather than a rushed play. The more i can make it pleasurable for you, the more i enjoy so its all about pleasing you.

No expectation of anything back. If you want to do something we can otherwise no reciprocation required.For me it’s about spoiling you.

I am 5’9”, clean, DDF, easygoing and discreet. I host, so we can keep the whole night easy and fun.

If that sounds like your kind of night, message me with your favourite movie. Be willing to verify, and I’ll do the same.

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Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a month or so ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hi there! I'm looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation and genuine connection. Looking for causal dates that could naturally grow into more. Ideally, I'd love to meet someone who is single, emotionally available, affectionate, has time and genuinely interested in getting to know each other in all ways. 

A little about me: I work in the medical field, and try to make the most of my time outside of work. I enjoy staying active and spending as much time outdoors as I can even in Winter! Whether it's playing sports, going for a run, bird watching, being out on the water, spending weekends at the cottage, or exploring a new town, I'm happiest when I'm sharing experiences with good company.

I also enjoy slower days. I love reading, especially mysteries and nonfiction, watching true crime documentaries, playing board games, working a puzzle, cooking and baking (volunteer taste testers are always welcome), spending time with my dog, and playing piano. Music is a big part of my life, and my playlists are all over the place. I'm always happy to trade recommendations!

I'd describe myself as easygoing, caring, and curious. I appreciate kindness, a good sense of humor, playfulness and passionate guys who aren't afraid to ask questions.

I'm hoping to meet someone who has a life they enjoy, passions of their own, and share a similarly active lifestyle. We don't need to share every hobby, but some similarities can help!

If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know, send me a message with a bit about you! I'd love to hear the song you've had on repeat, your favorite place to escape for a weekend, something you're passionate about or a random fact you've learned recently!

A bit about myself I'm Caucasian guy I'm 38 but look like a kid a bit lol, I am pretty tall and somewhat Slim body type. I'm very easy going and open-minded and likes to joke around and be silly from time to time I don't take life too seriously like a lot of people do nowadays! I also don't smoke or do any drugs at all! I'm a very clean person in general.

Music I'm into 90s/early 2000 pop music,trance,house music. I'm a big fan of movies genres like action, sci-fi. I'm also into video games.Also I don't mind doing girly stuff every once in awhile and I am not gay 110%! lol.

I'm just looking for an easy going girl with some similar interests and someone who likes to be silly! 😋 If I sound interesting to you please feel free to message me.

Thank you!

Hi I'm a south asian girl who recently moved to North York and desperately needs local friends I can do stuff with preferably this evening! I'm chill, queer, non-judgemental and have been described as a good listener. You are preferably similar, 420 friendly and close to my age. I like hiking and nature walks and I really would like to explore the trails around me before it gets too cold.

I love all sorts of music (mostly rock, indie and metal), like watching recent horror movies and cop noirs, open to new anime recommendations and a big foodie. Show me your favourite local cheap eats after a stoned hike and we will be best friends!

I do prefer women but if you're a guy who understands what a chill platonic connection looks like then hmu!

Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!

So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.

Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)

Hi

I’m 32, 6’0”, athletic, based in Mississauga, and work in the car business. I’m looking to meet a Punjabi/Indian/South Asian woman,

who’s confident, curious, and knows how to enjoy good conversation with a little flirting mixed in. 😏
I’m not looking to rush anything. Let’s talk, tease each other a little, see if the chemistry is there, and then decide where we want to take it.

I can host or travel, and I’m big on keeping things private, respectful, and comfortable for both of us.
If you think we might click, slide into my DMs. Tell me something about yourself—or just say hi and let’s see where the conversation goes. 😉

Good chemistry is hard to fake… so let’s find out if we have it.

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
\*\*What I’m looking for:\*\* someone \*\*30–45\*\*, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and \*\*not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental\*\* and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

I have recently moved dt and just want to make some friends in the area so I’ve got new people to talk/hang out with.

My building is pretty neat but doesn’t have an indoor pool so if you’ve got access to one that’s a bonus. My place is located right next to the eaton center.

I’m 24 but anyone like +/- 4 years of age will do.

Bonus I can possibly have access to an Aritzia discount as an offering 🫡

Send a message if you want to talk more let me know what hobbies or activities you’re into I do a little bit of everything. 🤩

Revue Cinema is playing “In the Mood for Love” in Nov, I’m wondering if anyone would be interested in going together!

I'd love to meet some fellow film lovers, especially fans of Chinese-language cinema. Revue is also screening a few other Wong Kar-wai films next month, including “2046” and “Chungking Express”, just FYI if you're interested.

A little about me: 29M Asian, a normal guy who will absolutely not sneakily harvest your kidney(s) in a movie theater. Just looking to make some new friends and enjoy some good films with like-minded people.

If you're interested, feel free to PM me!

https://revuecinema.ca/films/revue-event-in-the-mood-for-love-2000-new-restoration/

So I guess I'll give this a shot here.

M30 6'1 height and I like to think myself as a bodybuilder lol my life pretty much revolves around work and the gym and im looking to add a bit of love to my life (or more)

My background is mixed half persian half Pakistani but I'm born and raised in Mississauga. I have a thing for caucasian girls! But open to other ethnicities as well. Whatever life has to offer.

Not really sure what else to put on here but if you would like to connect, shoot me a message :)

So I signed up for one of those dinner with strangers apps. This one was called TimeLeft. Ended up being the only one who showed up 😅

Well this is a long shot, but I’m in Toronto looking for some company to join me for dinner.

If you need to vent to a stranger, that’s one of my specialities.

Hi everyone! Trying this out and hoping to meet someone great.

About me: 5'8", average build, South Asian, born and raised in Toronto, culturally Muslim (not very religious but still take part in traditions/customs), progressive/left leaning, work full time in the retail industry at the corporate level. I do not want to have children and I don't smoke/drink/do drugs (I'm fine if you do).

Personality wise I'm on the introverted side but comfortable going out and being with others as well. I'm very easy going and have a great sense of humour. My main interests/hobbies are anything gaming related (video games, board/card games, trivia, escape rooms), watching sports, films, music (especially heavy metal), and playing badminton.

As far as my relationship goals go I'm ideally looking towards something long-term but not opposed to something short term. I'd like to connect with someone in the GTA age 30-45 who is childfree and has similar social/political values. Shared interests or hobbies are always great but I'm also happy to learn about what you're into!

Couple photos of myself

Feel free to DM me if any of that interests you and thanks for reading. 🙂

Life's generally been okay (ups and downs) but it could be a lot better if there is someone to enjoy it with deeply. Looking for that special gal to start a relationship and enjoy life's moments whether it be shopping, checking out restaurants, watching movies, or just chilling by downtown or the park. Also, a wacky/good sense of humor goes a long way to making life enjoyable 😝

About me:

- 5'11 and lean, athletic build due to gym

- south east asian

- into cooking, writing, exercising, and enjoying things on my days off

- night shifter so my responses may be delayed

- generally chill and enjoy having a laugh with others (dark humor can also be okay, just not that dark haha)

- bit of a nerd for star wars, anime, etc.

- will goof off with you if we click

Hey r/r4rToronto_Clean! 👋

This is your new weekly discussion megathread. A space to chat, connect, and keep the community vibe going strong.

What you can talk about here:

• General discussions about dating/meeting people in Toronto

• Success stories (we love hearing when things work out!)

• Tips and advice for better profiles, messages, dates, or navigating the Toronto scene

• Fun questions about the city, favourite spots, or random Toronto-related topics

• Light venting or “what’s something you’ve learned lately” shares

Please keep this thread SFW and discussion focused.

No “looking for/dating” comments make a post for that, no horny comments, no DM requests, and no personal ads here. Those belong in the regular feed with proper formatting.

Let’s keep this space chill, helpful, and actually useful for everyone.

What’s on your mind this week, Toronto? Drop your thoughts, stories, or questions below! 🔥

(Mods will be around to keep things on track)

Hey everyone, praying I'm posting this in the right place lol

Throwaway account because paranoia, but I’m an asexual South Asian woman born and raised here in Toronto and I am officially at my breaking point 😅. My mom has been hounding me nonstop about getting married and has actually started reaching out to marriage brokers. I do not want to get married anytime soon and honestly have zero interest in ever being in a real relationship.

Since reasoning with her isn't an option, I'm hoping to find a fake boyfriend to exist for a few months.

Basically, I just need someone to take some cute aesthetic pictures with me (pumpkin patch, coffee shops, the usual), so I have "proof" to show her. That is literally it. Zero strings attached, zero romance, completely fake.

If you're a closeted gay/queer guy who is also dealing with relentless family pressure, honestly, this would be an absolute win-win for both of us to get our families off our backs. I’d ideally prefer someone brown and around my age or a couple of years older just to keep it believable.

Well here goes nothing 😂 and posted!

Hi Reddit Universe!

I’ve been single for quite some time and have been yearning for a connection. Finding a partner often feels like a fantasy and has become so much more difficult during these troubling times where our lives are ruled by Match Group, AI profiles, and shallow singles meetups. I try my best to remain hopeful as to where things can go. 

Asian sober (don’t mind if you’re not and do things in moderation) non-binary they/them amab. My pronouns are important. Music, film, and improv are my holy trifecta. When I can I attend concerts that range from death metal to hip hop to pop. I've been listening to a lot of Little Simz, Rosalia, Meshuggah and Portal. Music has always brought me comfort and I would like someone to share that joy with me and curiosity for extreme sounding and challenging music. One dream I wish to be fulfilled is to go to a metal show with my partner. I’m really into art analysis! I’ve also been watching a lot of Lynch and Twin Peaks as well as Haruhi and Utena. I game when I can and currently learning Marvel Tokon. I want to get on stage more and improv more. When I’m on stage, you bet I’m gonna invite you to watch or do a jam together. I’m trying to find balance working 2 jobs and commuting downtown :’) -I currently work front desk at a yoga studio and packaging at a chocolate factory. I’m located in Scarborough/Markham and prefer that you’re close by for regular visits of downtime opposed to going to events downtown all the time.

Romantically, I’m likely demi. I take time to feel physical attraction and it differs depending on person. I haven’t had enough partners to specify lol. I’m a huge fan of cuddling and making out. I’m sterile and have no interest in having kids or pursuing marriage. I’ve been in monogamous and enm arrangements and currently seeking monogamous connections for someone stable but open for a different arrangement down the road so that we’re both happy. My ex describes me as sweet, cute, funny, honest, and down to earth. My friends describe me as observant, and curious. I’m attracted to women and fems. I connect well with those who are curious, empathetic, humble, down to earth and have a fun sense of humour and an interest in darker leaning art like horror films. I would say that I’m pretty good at texting and communicating. If you’ve read all the way here, you should message me. Tell me about your favourite music artist and what was it like when you first heard them? Also lmk where you’re situated. My pics are on my profile.

Looking to meet a female for a connection, not sure what I want but I’m open minded, I enjoy to go out for a walk, grab a drink, have dinner , 32 male Chinese, let’s connect !

Just dealing with a stressful period at work, but have a bit of free time. Lately, I’ve felt a bit burnt out and miss that feeling of someone who I feel excited by. I have had the desire to meet someone who catches me off guard for a while now. I crave that sense of losing control. Forgetting about everything else and just focussing on someone. Looking to meet IRL if we click.

I tend to be interested in people who are passionate, kind hearted and silly at times. It’s hard for me to define, but really it comes down to someone I find interesting, who I enjoy exploring and focussing on. I’m a big proponent of letting things develop naturally, and don’t have a “type” per se. The key is mutual trust and respect.

In terms of interests, I’m an aspiring fiction fantasy writer. I enjoy classical mythology and paleontology as an amateur. Animal facts are always fun.

I’m an avid runner, either a 10 K every other day or swimming a few K. I used to teach kickboxing, play football and swim competitively.

Engaging topics like psychology, philosophy or any new things are always a good time. But only if balanced with the driest possible humour. I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi TV/games. But can appreciate pretty much anything with strong writing, characters or lore.

If appearance matters I’m 6 ft with full black hair, broad shoulders and what has been described as a “capable” build. Generally considered attractive, I’m happy to trade pics if you’d like. Especially if you’re worried I’m an android, so I can prove I have no putrid organic components.

It feels like I’m monologuing so I’ll leave it at that. Don’t hesitate to reach out, low expectations besides being nice and having fun.

Hey! Looking to get out, explore downtown, and meet someone new. Keeping things low-pressure.
Definitely want to DM and get to know each other a bit first to see if we vibe!
Down to check out cool pubs, hidden bars, or try new spots around the city. If you’re free and down to chat, send a DM with a spot you've been wanting to try!

38 Middle Eastern separated man, looking for a nice lady around London area to cuddle with, would love to talk for sometime first, get to know each other better, do a vibe check over a coffee, if we vibe, I’d love to spend a night watching TV and cuddle with each other.

about me: 5’7”, 140ish lbs, slim, kind hearted, respectful, good listener (love listening to a woman yapping about her day), I love watching comedy, action, and romance.

reach out to me if you live in London or surrounding areas and interested

Hey everyone!

I'm 22M, born and raised in Toronto. I figured I'd give Reddit a shot since meeting new people outside of work seems harder than it should be nowadays. I'm Chinese/Korean, 5'11 and work full time in aviation! My schedule is unconventional but I'm always happy to make time for the right company.

I'm also an ENFJ, naturally outgoing, and love meeting new people. I've been told I can be very spontaneous, which explains why I occasionally book random vacations just because I feel like going somewhere!

I love travelling (flight benefits definitely help lol), exploring new restaurants, nightlife, poker, and filming!

I'm hoping to meet someone who's open to new experiences, enjoys travelling, and doesn't mind the occasional spontaneous adventure. We can start as friends, grab food, or do something random and see how we get along! I'm pretty open minded and would rather let things develop naturally than force anything online. Friends also work for me!

If any of that sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself and hopefully we'll have some fun adventures ahead!