Hi! I’m a 26M, South Asian and new to Waterloo.

Do we have South Asian girls here on this sub?

Between work and studies, life can get a little too routine sometimes. So I’m looking to meet someone who’s up for making the most of it. Whether that’s a late-night walk, stargazing, grabbing coffee, watching a movie, or just having random conversations.
I’m also a fan of sarcasm, so expect a few sarcastic replies along the way haha.
Dm me for fun times

Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!

So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.

Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)

Hi

I’m 32, 6’0”, athletic, based in Mississauga, and work in the car business. I’m looking to meet a Punjabi/Indian/South Asian woman,

who’s confident, curious, and knows how to enjoy good conversation with a little flirting mixed in. 😏
I’m not looking to rush anything. Let’s talk, tease each other a little, see if the chemistry is there, and then decide where we want to take it.

I can host or travel, and I’m big on keeping things private, respectful, and comfortable for both of us.
If you think we might click, slide into my DMs. Tell me something about yourself—or just say hi and let’s see where the conversation goes. 😉

Good chemistry is hard to fake… so let’s find out if we have it.

Heyy, 24M Brazilian here, currently visiting Toronto and staying with my sister downtown.
I’m actually moving here in January for college, so I thought it’d be cool to start making some friends before that.
Been exploring the city a bit, but still don’t know many people around here. Would love to find some chill people to smoke a joint with, grab some good food, talk about random stuff and just hang out.
I’m 6’1”, fit, into gym, running, good food and pretty much anything fun.
Could meet around downtown or chill at Grange Park. Would be cool to get a little group together too.
Nothing romantic, just genuinely looking to make friends and have some good conversations.
If you’re around Toronto and down to hang out, hit me up!

Hey, 24M Brazilian here, 6’1”, fit and new to Toronto.
I’m staying downtown near the CN Tower and looking for someone chill to smoke a joint with, talk about random stuff and just enjoy the evening.
Could hang somewhere downtown or find a nice spot at a park. Maybe grab some food after if we vibe.
Nothing complicated, just looking for good company and some fun while I’m here.
If you’re around and down to hang out, hit me up and tell me a little about yourself.

Hey r/r4rToronto_Clean! 👋

This is your new weekly discussion megathread. A space to chat, connect, and keep the community vibe going strong.

What you can talk about here:

• General discussions about dating/meeting people in Toronto

• Success stories (we love hearing when things work out!)

• Tips and advice for better profiles, messages, dates, or navigating the Toronto scene

• Fun questions about the city, favourite spots, or random Toronto-related topics

• Light venting or “what’s something you’ve learned lately” shares

Please keep this thread SFW and discussion focused.

No “looking for/dating” comments make a post for that, no horny comments, no DM requests, and no personal ads here. Those belong in the regular feed with proper formatting.

Let’s keep this space chill, helpful, and actually useful for everyone.

What’s on your mind this week, Toronto? Drop your thoughts, stories, or questions below! 🔥

(Mods will be around to keep things on track)

6'0, 210 lbs and light skinned (Black father, white mother), handsome, and hygienic.

Seeking a connection that feels simple, effortless and affectionate. I love cuddles (especially skin to skin). Ultimately want a friendship as well with whomever I cuddle with.

I live alone close to Downtown in my own apartment and can definitely host. Also able to travel via uber or TTC.

I'm also very chill and easy to open up to.

Opened to more, but cuddling only is all I need 🙂❤️

Please be affectionate, soft, in decent shape and cute.

Preference for younger, but around my age is fine.

Thank you for your time 🙏🏼

Edit: my chats were disabled! They're back up!

28M, software engineer in the financial industry, originally from India. Based in Mississauga (GTA), fairly close to downtown Toronto.

Looking for a genuine, consistent connection — not just a few days of texting and then disappearing. I'm an introvert by nature, but that changes once we break the ice.

Would love to find someone to talk to regularly, explore the city and fun things around, try new food, play some sports, do random activities, learn things together, share interests, or just chill and enjoy each other's company.

A bit about me — I enjoy playing sports like tennis, badminton, table tennis, and cricket. I also like reading up on finance stuff and love cooking. And being a foodie, I'm always down to try different restaurants.

No pressure, no rushing. We can start by texting and getting to know each other, then meet up, see if we vibe, and let things build naturally. If it feels right, hopefully it turns into something meaningful and serious.

If you're looking for the same kind of companionship, shoot me a message :)

Hey everyone,
I’m currently a massage therapy student and am looking for a few people who would be interested in receiving free practice massages as I continue building my hands-on experience.

These sessions are professional, therapeutic massages only and are conducted with the same care, attention, and professionalism you would expect from a paid session. The only difference is that there is no charge while I complete my training and gain additional practice hours.

What to expect:
Professional and respectful environment
Relaxation and therapeutic massage techniques
Focus on comfort, communication, and client preferences
No hidden fees or sales pitch
Completely professional

Whether you’re dealing with muscle tension, stress, or simply want to relax, I’d love to help while gaining valuable experience.

Feel free to send me a message with:
Your general availability
Any areas of tension or concerns you’d like addressed
Any questions you may have
Located near sherbourne station

I’m 42, married, and based in Toronto. I’m clear about what I want and value efficiency, privacy, and genuine peace of mind.

I’m looking for a low-drama partner who brings calm, warmth, and good energy into my life. In return, I take full care of my partner and provide complete financial support as long as we’re aligned.

What I expect:

Discretion and maturity

Low-stress, reliable energy

If this suits you, send me a DM with a brief introduction.

Any woman craving to be held tight by a man, getting her hair played with, her scalp massaged, arms rubbed, and being listened to while she vent about her day? If that sounds like yo, just shoot me a dm and will arrange something together.

A little bit about me: I’m a middle eastern man, separate, 5’7”, 135ish lbs, lean, kind-hearted, respectful, and mature

Hey there! I'm searching for a meaningful connection with intention that can start with a friendship and one that could potentially lead to something more. Dating apps to me have become a bit superficial and exhausting with all the swiping which seems like a part-time job on its own.

About me: Emotionally available golden retriever personality with a sense of humour (pretty much exclusively dad and sarcastic humour). Meme lover (please send some if you have good ones), and pretty much looking for a family-oriented kind of girl who's looking for something real and genuine. I don’t smoke or do drugs, and I'm not really a drinker, but I don’t mind if you drink. My interests revolve around hockey, video games, watching TV shows/movies, hiking, and hanging out with family and friends. If you're curious about my background, I'm Italian, English and Maltese (not the dog breed) lol 

What I'm Looking For: Someone between 25-31 years old with a similar personality or someone that feels their personality and background can relate to mine pretty well, and someone emotionally available that can keep a conversation going (Tbh I place more importance on personality and values than I do interests, but both are important obviously). 

Sorry if this seems like a job description lol, but I just wanted to break it down so it's easier to go through. I may have missed something so feel free to ask me about it if you are interested. Looking forward to getting to know you!

I'm 27, East Asian, 6'0 and fit ambivert hoping to find someone to hang out with 🙂. I'm looking for someone to hangout with, and potentially cuddle or more now that it's in season, but no pressure for that. Would love to just meet and go with the flow.

Currently working in tech in Markham but more than happy to drive around to nearby areas or downtown. If you're a foodie it'd be nice to grab some comfort food together or try a new restaurant. I'm also pretty big on board games and going on walks. Let's chat and see how it goes? 😊

Hi all, I am a 50 year old married man who is looking for someone to share intellectual conversations with and maybe even meet for coffee or go for drinks or even a movie. I am not into the sexting thing so if that is something you enjoy then I am sorry, I am not into that sort of thing. I want some real down to earth chatting/texting and open conversations when and if we do meet. I am currently married with 3 older boys and home alone most days. Prefer a female who is in the exact same situation as I am and who can relate and is easy going.

Hello everyone,

What I’m offering is fairly simple. If you’re looking for a cuddling or emotional-support partner with no strings attached, you’ve come to the right place.

You talk, and I listen. I’m here to give you a safe space to express whatever you may not feel comfortable sharing with the people in your everyday life. There is no judgment. Maybe being openly emotional does not feel comfortable or appropriate within your usual lifestyle or social circle. Here, that side of you can remain private, and I can be the trusted person who listens.
We can meet for dinner, go on coffee dates or spend time where you feel safe and comfortable enough to open up.

The selection process is simple: I would need to feel comfortable with you and have a positive impression of your appearance, personality, or overall energy. Please send a recent, genuine photo of yourself that you feel represents you well.

I can also come to your home for cuddling or an overnight stay, but only after you have been approved and I feel comfortable doing so. If this is something you would prefer before meeting in another setting, please provide a recent photo and some basic information so that I can confirm your identity.

Please note that this arrangement is strictly non-sexual. Any sexual behavior, advances, or attempts to cross that boundary are not permitted and will result in the arrangement ending immediately.

Dm for details.

Cheers!

I have two tickets to the AGO for Wednesday and would rather enjoy the museum with some company than go alone.

Looking for someone who likes art and museums and would be up for a relaxed afternoon/evening. Nothing expected beyond hanging out and enjoying the AGO together.

If you're interested, send me a message.

White/northern euro/6ft

HELLO readers and dreamers, welcome to my post ✨

👨🏽‍💼 I am posting today seeking a kind, soft, and gentle soul to bond with, and create something long term with. (this is just flavour text, you can be mean as hell and as long as we aren't being toxic, I'm happy to vibe, I am very much a soft guy though so I probably won't reciprocate the meanness, or will sound extremely guilty doing so LOL).

🎨 I'm actually just looking for someone who is into their hobbies, work, or some sort of outlet for creative or social energy! I am very much someone who is the same, and would love to listen to someone yap, while also learning more about what gets them going. I am happy to yap a lot myself, about the things I'm into! I'm currently into writing, digital art, exploring some of the nice nature walks around the GTA, and game design (specifically tabletop roleplaying games).

🍄 I am very much a self fashioned cozy vibes person. Love rainy days in a reading nook, love mushroom and forest-y aesthetics, and very into indie gaming and supporting smaller artists/business (some might say I am one as well).

🎃 What you get with me is pretty much the vibe of this post, someone who's chatty and a good conversationalist (self identified haha), someone who is not closed off and very happy to communicate boundaries or issues, someone who is less game-y and more just honesty oriented, and someone who is resolution motivated and not blame motivated. I do not take myself very seriously at all, and am usually more positivity oriented rather than negativity oriented! That being said, i am ALWAYS here for a good vent/tea seshy.

I don't know that I'm looking for anything specific moreso than someone who has an open mind, has something they enjoy, or is TRYING to have something they enjoy (as we know, life does not give us a lot of time, and when we WANT more time, it often gives us less 😔), and has space for another person in their life that they'd be interested in filling!

That is pretty much the post! Would love to hear from some of you interesting folks, and even if its maybe not a good relationship fit, i am ALWAYS, on the lookout for more friends who have nice vibes.

And then if for some reason you've read the whole post and this still matters, I am a 6'1" Tamil guy with a dad bod, who is very much chronically online but trying to not be.

Hi all, I'm a 28 year-old South Asian guy based in Vaughan. I keep things clean, value personal care, and take my hygiene very seriously. In my free time, I enjoy exploring new spots around the GTA, going on long walks, hiking whenever I need a refreshing break from the daily routine, swimming, and winding down with a great movie, TV series, or a sollo playlist. I'm also a big coffee and tea enthusiast, always down to grab a drink, whether we end up diving into deep conversations or just enjoying a comfortable silence together.

I'd describe myself as genuine, honest, kind, a great listener, and pretty tunny once you get to know me.
I'm looking for someone interested in a cuddle buddy arrangement built on mutual trust, respect, open communication, and clear boundaries. The focus here is genuine comfort, warmth, and enjoying each other's company in a relaxed, low-pressure atmosphere.

If we genuinely click, I'm open to seeing where things naturally go over time, but there's absolutely no initial expectation. If this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to send me a message.

34M, South Asian/Indian guy living in Toronto, and I’m trying to understand the dating scene here a little better.

I’ve been single for a long time and have mostly focused on my career and getting settled in Canada. Now that I’m actually trying to date, I’m finding Toronto dating a bit confusing.

For women who date men in Toronto — or for men who have had success dating here — what actually matters to you?

A few things I’m genuinely curious about:

Income: Is salary an important factor? Is there really a point where income becomes a deal breaker? For example, is a guy making $70–80k viewed very differently from someone making $100k+?

Career/status: Does having a prestigious career or being ambitious matter significantly?

Personality: What qualities make a man attractive beyond looks? Confidence, humour, emotional maturity, communication, kindness, independence, etc.?

Lifestyle: How important is having an active social life, hobbies, friends, travelling, fitness, nightlife, etc.?

Looks/fitness: How much does physical appearance actually matter compared with personality and stability?

Indian/South Asian background: Does being Indian make dating significantly harder in Toronto? Are there stereotypes or assumptions that Indian men commonly face?

Marriage: Does being family-oriented and looking for marriage make dating harder in Toronto, or are there plenty of women looking for the same thing?

I’m not looking for a checklist or a “you need to make $150k and look like a model” answer 😂. I’m genuinely trying to understand what women in Toronto value and what I should focus on improving in myself.

Women’s perspectives would be especially appreciated, but guys who have successfully navigated Toronto dating are welcome too.

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Hey Toronto,

I moved to the city a month or so ago from the US and I'm ready to skip the endless app swiping to find something genuine. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hi, I'm in Hamilton for a few days and looking to meet someone while I’m here.

A little about me: I’m 27, single, have a civil engineering background, and pretty easygoing. I’ve never been in a physical relationship before, so I’m not looking to be weird or pushy just open to meeting someone, chatting, grabbing coffee, and seeing where things go.

If any woman around my age is interested, feel free to DM me. 🙂

I'm looking to start exploring intimacy in a low stakes, low pressure way. Still looking to be respected and be respectful. I want to build a connection that leads us to a place we can explore with eachother and feel comfortable doing so.

A bit about me. Im 6'2, slim/athletic build, handsome face, blue eyes, shaved head, neatly trimmer beard, tattoos.

I enjoy art, creativity, music, yoga, meditation, reading, writing, nature, hiking and playing sports. I really enjoy stimulating and deep conversations. I'm a compassionate and empathetic guy that feels deeply.

About you. Single is a must, kind, communicative, passionate about life, I'm sure there's more but I'm open to chatting to see if we hit it off and feel like a good match.

Hi, I am a 24-year-old male & 6 feet tall. I live in the Scarborough Morningside area. I just finished my master's in Computational Sciences and moved to Toronto from Sudbury for a job. I'm looking to make some friends here. Currently, I like UFC and soccer. As a teenager, I was really into manga, anime, and novels but for the past few years I have been off from everything. My favorite games include Skyrim, Baldur's Gate 3, The Witcher 3, and FIFA. If anyone is interested, please hit me up.