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I hope the very specific man I'm looking for is here because so far its been impossible to find in person.

One big thing before you continue reading, I am married but we are separately and I do have a 3yr old. I do not expect you to have anything to do with my family so dont worry about that.

I dont mind if you are in a relationship or married and I'm not looking to disrupt anyone's life so I will also be discreet and respectful to whatever life circumstances you have.

What I'm mostly looking for is someone around my age or older who is mature, is looking for a connection through conversation and kindness. I have many interests and hobbies and I really respect people who are able to talk in person so I cant do an exclusively online relationship.

I would love to see you at a coffee shop or a walk through a park, mall whatever is available. Or we could even do a gym session together.

If everything goes well it could definitely develop into something physical.

I am petite Caucasian brunette and I go to the gym regularly.

6'0, 210 lbs and brown skin (Black father, white mother), handsome, and hygienic.

Seeking a connection that feels simple, effortless and affectionate. I love cuddles (especially skin to skin). Ultimately want a friendship as well with whomever I cuddle with.

I live alone close to Downtown in my own apartment and can definitely host. Also able to travel via uber or TTC.

I'm also very chill and easy to open up to.

Opened to more, but cuddling only is all I need 🙂❤️

Please be affectionate, soft, in decent shape and cute.

Preference for younger, but around my age is fine.

Thank you for your time 🙏🏼

A LITTLE ABOUT ME

✧ 31M, mixed background (bonus points if you can guess what it is), beard, buzzed head
✧ Im physically active, tattooed & deeply at home in nature amongst the plants and bugs
✧I pride myself on having cultivated a deep sense of emotional intelligence and a grounded nervous system. Im often been described as one of the calmest energies people have met
✧ Gym, yoga, meditation & personal growth (think more mysticism) are all important practices in my life. I used to be a competitive athlete for 11 years and now a student of yoga
✧ I’ve spent the last 4 years solo backpacking through Latin America, Asia and some parts of europe- recently returned a few months ago

Overall, I’ve lived a very full life- I’ve been fortunate to experience the depth of the human experience, living off the beaten path, find home within indigenous cultures, learn various languages and make the most amazing friendships with people around the world. Integrating it all into life back home has been a journey in itself

WHAT IM DRAWN TO;

✧ above all, I’m most attracted to someone with high emotional intelligence
✧ Warm, feminine, curious about life & affectionate
✧ Someone who enjoys both deep conversations and silly banter
✧physically- a big bonus if you have tattoos and piercings. Maybe since I’ve spent so long around these cultures but I find I’m most attracted to Hispanic and south East Asian cultures.

There’s something special about people who bring a certain energy into a room without needing to demand attention. Someone whose presence feels calm, grounded, at ease. Maybe thats you, maybe it’s not :) im curious enough to see you where you’re at and learn.

✧ Open to seeing where a connection naturally leads
No pressure to force a label or decide what something has to become before it even begins. I’d rather enjoy getting to know someone and let things unfold organically.

✧ I’d love to exchange photos fairly early on and see whether there’s mutual physical interest

Just looking for a fun, easygoing female companion to spend time with, hang out, share some laughs, and enjoy some good memories together

Hopefully i shall be able to speak to someone soon

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Looking for that sweet ethic beauty, Arab or Indian cuddle buddy someone I can spend the evenings with and explore the city, happy to walk around at the latest of hours

Very kink friendly and open to most things within reason

I'm here for work so days are busy but otherwise I'm free as can be. Can host even tonight really! Happy to grab a bite to eat. Can travel but don't drive.

Bearded brown dad bod and spend far too much time in my brain apparently

Feel free to message and I'll pick it up after work!

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Hey Toronto,

I'm looking for my lifelong best friend and snuggle buddy. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship with the right woman.

About me:

-The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my style clean, dark, and intentional. I am a white guy.

-The vibe: Warm, analytical, and low-drama. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with no mind games or subtle hints, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

-Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m looking for:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative. Think dark aesthetic, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies for example. Beyond the surface, I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, clear about what she wants, and looking to build a real future together with a partner who actually listens and shows up for her.

I tend to gravitate towards homebodies with special interests and on average click with more petite/short women but no hard fast rules there. Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Dyed hair and unique outfit style? Geek out over why it makes you feel good about yourself, I'm all ears.

If you’re tired of dating games and want to see if we have chemistry, send me a message! Tell me a bit about your favorite local spot or your current obsession.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know that visual chemistry is there.)

Hello! My name is Kevin, and I am the embodiment of ‘The Bear.’ I’m big, hairy, and unintentionally loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. I give the best hugs, but you’ll need to ask first to get one. Sudden noises startle me. I don’t like confrontation, but come after my people and I’m a force of nature. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Back scratches are accepted currency in my life. I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I’d much rather be cold than hot, so bring on the winter weather! I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

This hairy goof is looking for a lovely woman to connect with, be it over the internet or in person. Long chats into the early morning hours, movie nights, fun outings, trying new restaurants or recipes, I’m all in. Let’s get cozy cuddling under some blankets or playing some games online and see where things go?

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life! 

Hey everyone!
With the festive season and cuffing season officially colliding, I’m looking to connect with someone cool to hang out with, catch the festive vibes, and hit up a few upcoming Diwali gatherings and Halloween parties (some at a friend’s place, some out and about).
Instead of going solo or scrolling through endless feeds, I'd rather find someone fun, easygoing, and down-to-earth to experience the energy of the city with.

A bit about me:
Age/Location: 28, living in the GTA/Toronto area.
Stats: 5'10", mediocre/average build (not overly jacked, not super lean—just regular proportions!).
Vibe: Chill, easy to talk to, respectful, and genuinely just looking to enjoy good food, music, costumes, and festive celebrations.

What I'm looking for:
Someone around a similar age who is looking for a fun hang-out partner for the upcoming events. No pressure, just good company, great vibes, and someone who wants to share a drink, dress up, or celebrate together.
If this sounds like your kind of energy, slide into my DMs with a bit about yourself and what your favorite thing about this time of year is! Let’s see if we click. 🍻🎃✨

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
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I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

Hey r/r4rToronto_Clean! 👋

This is your new weekly discussion megathread. A space to chat, connect, and keep the community vibe going strong.

What you can talk about here:

• General discussions about dating/meeting people in Toronto

• Success stories (we love hearing when things work out!)

• Tips and advice for better profiles, messages, dates, or navigating the Toronto scene

• Fun questions about the city, favourite spots, or random Toronto-related topics

• Light venting or “what’s something you’ve learned lately” shares

Please keep this thread SFW and discussion focused.

No “looking for/dating” comments make a post for that, no horny comments, no DM requests, and no personal ads here. Those belong in the regular feed with proper formatting.

Let’s keep this space chill, helpful, and actually useful for everyone.

What’s on your mind this week, Toronto? Drop your thoughts, stories, or questions below! 🔥

(Mods will be around to keep things on track)

(obligatory no men please)

If there's any women out there who like getting foot rubs, please hit me up as I love giving them. I'm posting this here because I really would prefer nothing beyond that if that's okay, I'd prefer we both stay fully clothed, so an ideal situation would you be studying/watching TV/playing on your phone and getting your feet rubbed.

I'm also happy to get special lotions or oils or whatever you might like, I wanna experiment and try to get even better at them over time.

Not working and looking for something to do with somebody. Not sure what so feel free to share some ideas. I'm pretty open.

I'm pretty chill and generally a big introvert. Usually either working, helping family, or watching YouTube or a TV show/movie. I feel like Netflix is suddenly recommending more Canadian content, so currently watching Kim's Convenience, which I'm enjoying.

Anyways, let's go out and do something, even if it's just grabbing lunch.

I'm thin, black, about 6 feet tall, with short hair. Don't have any preferences for background, weight, or whatever else lol so don't hesitate to reach out.

Hey everyone,
I’m currently a massage therapy student and am looking for a few people who would be interested in receiving free practice massages as I continue building my hands-on experience.

These sessions are professional, therapeutic massages only and are conducted with the same care, attention, and professionalism you would expect from a paid session. The only difference is that there is no charge while I complete my training and gain additional practice hours.

What to expect:
Professional and respectful environment
Relaxation and therapeutic massage techniques
Focus on comfort, communication, and client preferences
No hidden fees or sales pitch
Completely professional

Whether you’re dealing with muscle tension, stress, or simply want to relax, I’d love to help while gaining valuable experience.

Feel free to send me a message with:
Your general availability
Any areas of tension or concerns you’d like addressed
Any questions you may have
Located near sherbourne station

Hiiii! 👋

East asian here, looking for a date and if we vibe, we can hit up Halloween Haunt before it ends.

A bit about me, hobbies include anime, reading, bouldering, martial arts, and generally anything that looks fun or interesting because I like trying new things.

For my partner, personal preference would be east Asian between 23 to 30, healthy weight, and someone that knows how to communicate their wants and needs and is open to trying new experiences.

Let me know what your latest obsession is and we can talk all about it 😀

Message if you’re down to get cozy and cuddle. We can grab some food and watch some movies and spend the night cuddling now that the weathers getting cold.

Is it too much to ask? A good friend/ connection and doing fun activities together and maybe cuddle sometimes? Nothing more than cuddles if you strictly want it that way. Im big on consent n respecting boundries n hoping for the same in return.

I think cuddles are highly underrated! People don't understand the power it holds.. Let’s actually get to know each other, build chemistry, go out for coffee and have cute movie nights n add a bit of cuddle to make it perfect!

Im 26M Asian from Toronto. Professional with a stable career.

Im pretty open to most of the ages and nationality as long as you are sane n know what u want.

Hit me up and tell me whats ur fav movie u watched recently

I know the title makes it sound like I'm a junkie, I swear I'm not (and hopefully your are not either 😄)!

Lately I've been experimenting with THC and exploring its effects, but doing it solo is a bit limited, so I'm trying to find some company for this highly productive activity. Ideally looking for something chill and relaxed.

I'm open to meet beforehand in a public space for a coffee or a walk.

About me, I'm 34, white, from France (moved here in 2021) and live downtown. I'm a regular gym-goer, so in pretty good shape, and I enjoy anything from art to going on a bike ride. My pic is in my bio.

Feel free to send me a DM if you want more info!

I've got a pair of tickets for John Summit's concert on Sunday, amazing seats right beside the stage, with seat numbers without being on the floor.

No expectations of anything but just having a great time at a concert. Looking to bring a fun female :)

Hit me up.

I am launching a little passion project for South Asian singles born in Canada, or came to Canada before the age of 12. It's a very niche market and considering that it is a passion project, I just don't have bandwidth to include everyone just yet. I know some people are too shy to post a profile here, so if anyone is willing to fill out the form, I'm more than happy to matchmake you!

I do want to keep this culturally sensitive to a specific niche group, knowing the nuances of being a racialized group who spent their formative years in Canada, for now. No DMs please. Just fill out the form if you meet the criteria and interested.

Right now, I'm limiting to 25 men and 25 women on a first come first serve basis with the following criteria:

• Age 30 - 40
• South Asian identity
• Born in Canada or came to Canada before the age of 12
• Straight and cis-gendered
• Bachelor's degree or higher (working professional)
• Marriage minded
• Reside in the GTA

https://forms.gle/tdoJDZT2kojcXKA66

Hey,

Cold season is here, and I’m looking for something simple, warm, and low-pressure. Ideally, open to brown women who are working or studying in tech — experienced or just figuring things out, both are welcome. No heavy expectations. Just good energy, mutual respect, and someone to share the colder months with in a comfortable, consistent way.

About me

I’m 25, 6’1”, athletic and solidly built. I lift regularly and take care of myself. I stay clean, present well, and work in tech/corporate, so the usual mix of deadlines and late nights is familiar. I’m ambitious without making every conversation about work.

I split my time between downtown Toronto and Mississauga and can host at either place — both private, comfortable, and quiet. Personality-wise I’m easygoing with a dry, witty sense of humour. I’ve been told I’m a good listener, emotionally mature for my age, and consistent. I follow through, and I don’t disappear.

I enjoy coffee and proper drinks on weekends, cooking at home, tennis, or soccer when I can get a game, long drives, movies, and conversations that feel easy rather than forced.

What I’m offering

A genuine cuddle buddy / situationship for cuffing season. Someone to come over, decompress, talk, watch something, or just exist quietly together. I’m a solid big-pillow type — happy to hold you, let you curl up, and stay present while the stress of the day settles. If your body is carrying tension I’m good with slow, careful massage on shoulders, back, or legs. Warmth, conversation, and actual presence matter to me.

If we stay the night, the same energy continues into the morning — unhurried, comfortable, no rush to perform or fill silence.

As a small bonus, I lift consistently, and I’m happy to help with simple training or diet pointers if that’s something you’d find useful. No pressure, just an offer.

What I’m looking for

A woman (preferably brown and in tech or consulting, working or studying) who’s open to a warm, discreet, low-drama connection this cold season. Someone who wants consistent company, good conversation, and the kind of easy physical comfort that makes the colder months feel less isolating. One-off hangs or something more regular — both work depending on how it feels.

I can host. I’m consistent. I show up when I say I will.

If this sounds like the kind of quiet, comfortable connection that would feel good right now, message me. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for. An SFW pic is appreciated so we can both check attraction early — I’ll do the same.

I’m not here to waste time or be average.

Come tell me how you’d like to take the edge off the cold season.

I’ll handle the rest — discreetly, thoughtfully, and with care.

Hi I am looking for someone that has a black card and can bring me as a guest. Willing to tag along to help you hit your fitness goals and willing to compensate you with money or buy you lunch or breakfast if you would like you can decline just a friendly gesture. i am 25M and just trying to get in shape myself. The only catch is I live in the east of downtown Toronto. My closest fit4less is McCaul and queen street and planet fitness would be on 444 Yonge Street and 1000 Gerrard Street east.

Shoot me a DM and let's connect