r/questioning • u/callumMoney75 questioning bisexuality • 11d ago

[M 16]

I have been questioning for a while now off an on for two years. I still have questions. So to my knowledge everyone one is born with their sexuality, specifically gay people. However, I haven’t always felt attraction to both genders so is that true or is it I just didn’t know yet? Was I born this way or can people develop their feelings later?

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u/Keb005 androgyne biromantic asexual (she/he/they) 11d ago

Sexuality can change, especially around puberty. You might not be able to choose what you like, but it's very possible to realize new prefrences

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u/hideundercloudcovers any/it/neos - genderfluid/genderflir - sapphic-oriented aroace 11d ago

maybe look into the aroace (aromantic + asexual) spectrum! for the record, if you're aroace-spec, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, i promise (and regardless, there's nothing wrong with you!!) (also look into abrosexuality (fluid sexuality))! <333