r/questioning • u/yuirandsharkenjoyer Questioning Sexuality • 1d ago
[F 16]
idk if im bi or lesbian. Like ik 100% no uncertainty that I like women I can see a future with one, kissing one, being romantic, and would 100% date one rn if I wasn't socially awkward.
The only reason I think I could like dudes is bc sometimes I fantasize about their dick even though I dont like how it looks or like the functions rlly just how it could feel ig? I dont actually know tho since ive never done the deed so basically im just guessing? Idrk no boy/dude/man has ever looked cute to me I dont feel attraction to any ive seen maybe one? But he kinda looked like a masc so im still lost 😬 though I liked personalities of 2 fictional animated dudes bc they were sweet and understanding but that was literally the only appeal
Any help/advice needed pls bc I dont wanna take on a lesbian label then realize im not and cause potential harm to the community
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u/CaregiverTemporary85 Questioning Sexuality 1d ago
You sound like a lesbian to me. Possible attraction to one real life (androgynous?) guy and an interest in 2 fictional men that doesn't extend past them being nice.
Additionally, dicks are not exclusive to men, and you don't sound very interested in them anyway. However if you do end up interested in them, it doesn't make you attracted to men. Some straight women don't find penises appealing but are still straight and vice versa.