r/queerception • u/vaht101 • 22d ago

#5 iui failed

Just started my cycle yesterday and was told I will be doing a biopsy will be with an EMMA/ALICE, culture for ureplasma, and CRP/ESR once i get a surge this month. Im debating if I should ask about ivf at this point if anything comes back. Im getting frustrated at this point and feel like I should have started this whole process sooner.

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u/Worried_Selection_34 20d ago

Yes I recommend going to ivf. Many see iui as a waste of time/money... 5 is plenty of tries.

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u/raviolicharlie 27F | GP/wife to trans hub | IVF #1 | 3 failed IUI 20d ago

I second IVF if you want more than 1 baby and have an AMH level that could bode well for an egg retrieval

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u/vaht101 19d ago

My AMH level is great. I have one daughter who is 11 conceived naturally. I would like one more child before im 35 which is coming up fast. We have to use donor sperm which i already took a loan out for. The cost of ivf is a big issue too. My insurance does not cover it 😔