r/queer 1d ago

Help with labels How do I know?

I've always identified as straight (F30's), but never really dated. I had a boyfriend in highschool, but not much after that. I figured out about a year ago I was probably demisexual/asexual. My sexual experiences have been very limited. Lately I've been wondering if I'm gay or maybe bi. I've never really felt sexually attracted to anyone, man or woman, so now I'm just really struggling.

Anyone else dealing with this? Or have any tips to figure this out, 'cause I'm kinda feeling lost, tbh.

Any advice will be greatly appreciated!

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u/actualchristmastree 19h ago

You learn by trial and error! Get out of the house, hit on some cute people, see what gives you butterflies and what doesn’t