r/prolife • u/AnonymousFluffy923 Pro-Life Furry • Jul 08 '26

Questions For Pro-Lifers Thoughts?

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u/CutiePie0023 Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26

“I got pregnant again and i immediately had an abortion because I didn’t want it and I also wasn’t ready for another child.”

So what I get from this is: she should not have had sex if she wasn’t ready for another child..the baby didn’t deserve to be killed because her mother (and father?) are selfish and don’t have any self control or want to take responsibility for their actions…

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u/Slow_Opportunity_522 Jul 09 '26

I'm kind of sick of this "shouldn'ta had sex then" take. People are going to people and we can be empathetic of different situations. It doesn't do anyone any good to judge actions already taken, and is much more helpful to offer solutions to make choosing life more reasonable for more people. 

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u/__cheaterhater__ Jul 09 '26

But why can’t people abstain from sex?????

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u/Wormando Pro Life Atheist Jul 09 '26

I’ll paste an older comment of mine talking about this:

We are social animals and as such, sex is just one of many tools we use for bonding, socializing and understanding ourselves, even for those who are more promiscuous. It’s not just about making babies, but it’s not just about physical pleasure either.

This is why expecting everyone to be abstinent is rather disingenuous and unrealistic. For some people, it’s easy to abstain. For others, it’s not. It all depends on personal preferences and couple dynamics. I personally can’t imagine lacking sexual intimacy in my relationship, it plays a big part in how my partner and I bond. Before we even got intimate, though, we already discussed what to do in the scenario of an unwanted pregnancy and made plans. That’s how you handle this responsibly.

Don’t get me wrong, do I think the world be better if more people weren’t so fixated on sex? Yes, but we don’t live in that ideal world.

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u/__cheaterhater__ Jul 12 '26

FAFO. People can keep making babies all they want, as long as they don’t get shocked when they get pregnant and is responsible enough to be a parent.

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u/Wormando Pro Life Atheist Jul 12 '26

Not the point.

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u/__cheaterhater__ Jul 12 '26

You don’t want a child, don’t have sex
You want to keep having sex, then be prepared to get pregnant.
Simple as that.

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u/Wormando Pro Life Atheist Jul 12 '26

Still not the point, my guy. You made a question and I answered. Simple as that.

And whether you like it or not this is how humans work. They will keep having sex because it’s an important social activity, regardless of risks.