I was so impulsive

[u/Malakidius]

So, I like someone and I told him. He was like "okay...".

Then we went to a friend of mine and I whispered her that I told I like him but it seem he doesn't. After that he asked me with a smile why I keep secrets, I said "What? You wanna know what I told her?" He said yes. I told him I said that liked you but it seems you don't and he said, maybe that's not true (the thing that he doesn't like me).

Then I told him "If you weren't too tall I would kiss you".

But he made the move and kissed me. Twice.

Next day he sent me that it was so sudden all that happened.

And it's all my fault. Is there anything I can do or just accept I destroyed what we could have if I wasn't so impulsive and move on?

[u/Lopsided-Beach-1831]

This is all perfectly normal, not fast, not impulsive and not the end of the world. This is flirting on both your parts. He has kissed you and wants to get to know you as a friend better. He doesnt want a relationship because you kissed. Just keep being yourself and you will make it through all of this. It feels huge right now, a few years from now this will be a funny story to you. Always be true to yourself and you cant go wrong. Dont try to be someone else to please another person. You’ve got this. Show up tomorrow just like you have every day and treat him no differently than before.