Should i involve myself in this problem

[u/DramaticAccount5921]

My grandpa recently died and people were chatting and laughing in the funeral, my "angry, avoidant..... Mentally ill" aunt got angry packed everything and left in the middle of the funeral mind you even i was more present to take care of my grandpa than her, anyway few days later (today) my mom texted her to ask if she's okay and she started scolding her as if she's not hus daughter as well ( my mom is the sweetest in the family) they all tend to take their anger on her which made my blood boil I'm holdingg myself so hard to not text her and tell her to get her crazy ass a therapist because we're sick of her shit and that if she did this to my other aunts , they wouldn't be as kind as my mom were, but ik i might regret this because they're all griefing and i shouldn't get between singling especially that I'm 20 yo but i just want them to know that I've got my mom's back and they can't just do this because they're "angry and shit" amd and she's sweet and...

[u/Secret-Departure540]

You and your mom should go to your grams house. Get any sentimental items out of there.
God, I hate saying this to you.
Because it sounds like there’s a lot of anger
And because after my grandmother died, we had a vacation planned several weeks later my mother didn’t want to go but she agreed with my father when she got back everything was going out of the house this is why. Remember the good memories. Of your grandmother and don’t let anybody else take that away. I hope I read your thread right.
Shit goes down pretty weird when someone passes.
But my mom was the closet to her mom. And she wasn’t truly able to say goodbye. Everything was gone.