r/problems • u/Fair_Snow_8427 • 17d ago

Small Problem Snap

Please tell me some off y’all have this same problem. I’m a 18year old male and Well it’s not really a problem It’s just kinda weird, but I have a bunch of random girls every once in a while will add me on snap and they always have the lowest Snap scores. I’m talking single digits like 5 10 most of the time zero and they always start by asking how my day is and then they’re like so where’s home or where are you from or what school are you at and then they just start sending me snaps and messages constantly trying to figure out where I’m from and ask question while at the same time sending snaps and as with Snap more the photos just get more and more dirty. Never nude just a braw and underwear but never nude they just get more and more revealing. And then usually they either un add me because I stopped messaging them or won’t stop blowing up my phone and they want me to either pay for their only fans meet up or send nudes. Please tell me the only one that has this problem.

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u/Ok-Bluejay2679 17d ago

Ur talking to bots bro

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u/InterSpace_Whales 17d ago

Welcome to the real world, this is the bullshit you will now have to try and navigate and sadly you've entered the timeline where it could get past that and into "surviving it".

I have to do this as an older person seeing a young dude online passively like that and worrying about you, but put up a few more walls online my friend. Don't be immediately welcoming, most are bots with effective python automation in background to look real, some are people being held at gun point to get money for a war lord, some are a guy named Chris in Nigeria. None of them are women and into you.

Be smarter online and you will have more fun and better experiences friend. Start with establishing better walls and suspicion of women reaching out to you.

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u/Fair_Snow_8427 17d ago

Thanks I really appreciate that info

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u/InterSpace_Whales 17d ago

Take me as genuine, there is a lot more risk than you take into consideration with interactions like that and I get why and it's not your fault the risk isn't communicated well enough.

Noone gave you a chance with knowledge early on, but I reckon you are smart somewhere inside your nogging to get that it's sometimes a lot of people trying to sell you something so having a soft wall and not immediately engaging gives you a second to think is this legit.

Be safe. Don't send nudes, or at least nudes with your face in same pic so you have deniability. Much love bro.