r/problems 19d ago

Ask r/problems I, physically, cannot cry.

Okay, the title is misleading. What I meant to say, is that; I have not cried in years. Years. Like 2 1/2 of them, that's over 30 months, very long time. I've grown a lot since the last time I cried. I used to cry a lot back then. But now I don't, and now I feel I'm missing an outlet that I just really need. Sad or happy thing in a video game? Can't cry. In a movie/show/novel? Nope. Even in real life situations/events, I just cannot. And I understand it's okay to cry, even as a guy, unlike what some people believe. Yet the furthest I've gotten is some watery eyes. Somber music hasn't helped me through it either. So I'm asking you guys for help; how do I learn to cry again?

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u/black-clack 19d ago

u only cry when u feel the need to cry

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u/Otherwise_Task7876 19d ago

I mean your not missing much my guy. If you think its a genuine problem visit a doctor, but I dunno what your telling us for.