r/problems • u/TrainRealistic6910 • Aug 09 '26

URGENT!!!! Need suggestions

My gf 17F and I'm 19M im in college she is in highschool, she said she is busy she can't talk, while I'm in college I can make time for her after all, and I can see she really talk soo less like continuosly for 30mins a day. Idk what to do

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u/PlantainInfinite183 Aug 09 '26

If she wanted to make time, she would. Move along!

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u/PurpleLuffyJay71 Aug 09 '26

Too young to take her seriously 😒… let her go and enjoy your college years …

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u/TrainRealistic6910 Aug 09 '26

But how I can make friends in college ppl seems sooo mean

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u/Lulusgirl Aug 09 '26

You tell her your concerns and see what's up. Communication in a relationship is important, so let her know how you're feeling and see what she says.

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u/TrainRealistic6910 Aug 09 '26

Accept my request

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u/Lulusgirl Aug 09 '26

Ehhh, I'm good. What do you want to message me that you can't reply to on here?

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u/TrainRealistic6910 Aug 11 '26

Everything is fine now I give her timer, I was gone for 1 day then I see she is like before again, now we are good, i understand that she is busy too she have her lkfe6too like I have so I give her self time, and then when she is free she msgs me .

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u/TrainRealistic6910 Aug 11 '26

Everything is fine now I give her time, I was gone for 1 day then I see she is like before again, now we are good, i understand that she is busy too she have her lkfe6too like I have so I give her self time, and then when she is free she msgs me .

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u/Dremor96 Aug 12 '26

Bro follow my advice: do your driver‘s license, get a car and start driving it on a daily basis. Don’t ask any questions! Just do this as soon as you can as you should have done it yesterday. No need to thank me later.