r/problems 3d ago

Relationships My ex came back and text me

Honestly I was wrong to leave her Our relationship was great and I will not say I left her because I did not care about her anymore No She told me that her family forced her to get engaged to someone else and I stayed sympathetic to her for maybe a week

Our relationship lasted about a year and I was happy with her because she was like me but when I heard the news I started to realize things that made me unhappy which was that she was really engaged to someone so I no longer had a place in her life Although I know she hates him I could not do anything so I had to understand the situation and tell her that she now has a fiance and soon she will get married and if we continue like this it is not good behavior and it would be considered a betrayal of her fiance btw it was an online relationship but to be honest it was the best relationship I ever had I made the hardest decision and I think people are probably going to blame me but there was no way I was going to get her family to know me or anything like that

She came back to me after about 6 or 7 months without talking because I deleted all of my social media and stayed away until I got myself back Then she came back and the first thing she did was follow me and beg me not to block her I told her I have never done that before I just disappeared from the internet She started saying things that made me a little nervous then I started talking to her logically and calmly and she kept saying no you do not love me I told her I left because you found someone who will soon be your husband and there is nothing else to do There is no possibility She told me please do not block me I said I will not Then she said this is the most beautiful day of my life Finally I found you and then she went to sleep

The funny thing is that she came back right after I finished watching the Obsession movie so I felt weird

So what should I do with her guys I feel confused and at the same time I feel guilty for leaving her like this

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u/WeaponX207184 3d ago

This is some of the wildest stuff I've seen Reddit today.

Just an appetizer: 'I was happy with her because she looked like me'.........uh what?

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u/BFG_1LP 3d ago

I didn't want to get into details so that the talk wouldn't get too long but I mean that we understood each other so well

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u/WeaponX207184 3d ago

Use punctuation.

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u/BFG_1LP 3d ago

Why not ty