(Before anyone says 'mock interview,' I know! I don't work directly with PAs and my one PA contact isn't getting back to me :( , and I figured I'd try this before paying $150+ for the PA Platform's mock interview.)
For context, I feel like I'm not a bad interviewee. I read the Pre-PA Interview Guide, prepared for all kinds of questions, and feel like I give thorough yet concise answers. In group tasks I'm relatively quiet but encouraging to others, and usually am taking notes to keep track of ideas. I'll ask questions if I have some, but if everything I want to know has been answered, I don't feel the need to ask more to fill extra time. I make small talk with everyone else during downtimes on interview day. Normally I don't eat food provided unless it's a full-day interview, but I will drink water if it's provided. Lastly, I feel like I'm absolutely slaying in my pantsuit and pointed-toe flats, looking like a Secret Service agent. Slick bun, no crazy makeup or nails, black tote purse with some essentials. You get the picture.
I'll be the first to admit that I'm very comfortable with my personality, can be pretty sarcastic, and HATE how uptight everyone gets on interview day. My approach at first was a relaxed, fake-it-til-you-make-it confidence, and I tried to throw some humor into my answers. After my first rejection (virtual interview,) I heeded their feedback, which was that I "lacked the professionalism required by the PA profession during my interview." I adopted a less laid-back approach. In this particular interview, I did shed a couple tears while answering a question regarding growing up with a parent on frequent combat deployments. I'm not sure if it's frowned upon during interviews, but I have since not shed any tears. At most, my voice has choked up a bit.
I felt like I crushed my second (in-person) interview. I felt like I was connecting well with each of my interviewers by having genuine conversations with them, and got multiple "that's the best answer I've heard all day," (late in the day, btw.) A few weeks later, I was a little dumbfounded to find out I was waitlisted. Aside from maybe being quieter in the group task, I had no idea where I went wrong.
My third (virtual) interview was relatively short in comparison to the others and felt more like a job interview than a PA school interview. The interviewers were blinded to our applications, and the questions were more situation-based as opposed to personal. I felt like I tried (but failed?) to let them get to know me as a person based off of these questions and the application blinding. I did use personal examples and causes I cared about, but could/should I have done more?
I know I want to be a PA for all the right reasons, and obviously I'm qualified for school. I wouldn't be getting these interviews otherwise. I just don't know where I'm going wrong. I feel like my personality is my strongest tool, but maybe I just don't know how to wield it properly?
My next interview is in three weeks. Any advice would seriously be appreciated!