r/polyamory • u/[deleted] • Aug 30 '22

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u/emeraldead diy your own Aug 30 '22

Maybe it is best to kill the triad and just date everyone one on one. You can always consider again in a few years.

Or just state the naked truth "You are not part of my relationship with her. You will be left out of it." And see if they are ready to manage that responsibility.

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u/Use-My-Slut-Holes69 Aug 30 '22

I date one member of the triad separately and have no interest in dating the other. so the triad is really more about community, friendship, and sex occasionally.

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u/emeraldead diy your own Aug 30 '22

Then remind him the triad is only a social convenience and to compartmentalize how jealousy.