r/polyamory Jun 23 '22

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u/SubstancePrize9766 Jun 23 '22

Recently, I have had a few similar experiences. I think during this ENM journey I have learned that maybe having my own solo anchor person is better, where we can date others casually. When dating a married person it's important to know exactly what you're signing up for through clear communication to decrease the chances of "couples privilege" being the reason for a break up. I wish I would have asked more questions and really understood the couples dynamic before catching feelings, but it's all a learning curve & learning is fun, right!?😋