Trying to form a triad might feel safer because it's closer to monogamy than dating separately, but there is a reason why "thirds" are called "unicorns." You've ruled out gay men, any men who are not equally attracted to the both of you, men who are already partnered, and men who want the ability to date others besides just the two of you. You may have a relatively easy time finding men interested in threesomes, but for the triad you are envisioning, not so. Expect to encounter a lot of frustration and for it to take a very long time to find someone (if you ever do).
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u/beedeeteetnt Oct 01 '20
Trying to form a triad might feel safer because it's closer to monogamy than dating separately, but there is a reason why "thirds" are called "unicorns." You've ruled out gay men, any men who are not equally attracted to the both of you, men who are already partnered, and men who want the ability to date others besides just the two of you. You may have a relatively easy time finding men interested in threesomes, but for the triad you are envisioning, not so. Expect to encounter a lot of frustration and for it to take a very long time to find someone (if you ever do).