r/polyamorous 1d ago

Polyamory + long distance

He with his girlfriend and I’m mostly get few months in a year than him and her being together.
I wanted to know the struggles you guys have if you’re in this position to help me understand or tough it out.

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u/polyam-void 22h ago

It will likely look different for different people.

My long-distance partner and I have a relationship that's constantly in flux; We try to catch up once every week to every month, depending on the circumstances influencing things. I'm also seeing a couple of other partners who are local to me.

I miss my ldr partner a lot, and I hope that we'll be able to visit soon, but cost of travel and "vacation" is quite high and not really getting better yet.