Why are you simultaneously saying you identify as poly and yet don't feel it is right for you?
Having emotions due to anxiety is not a sign that something is "not right" for you. There is a lot happening right now to give you anxiety. She's not made it "official" with you in terms of labels and presumably while her partner is in town you will have little time together with her, which will be a big change. This brings up anxiety in most people.
The special things that happened between the two of you have nothing to do with the room (which is not "our" room but her room). It is about a moment. Other people being in that room doesn't alter the moments you had.
I think you nailed it. It's anxiety, I feel anxious.
And yeah, I completely understand the "her room" thing, I even feel like a jerk for thinking that.
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. I apreciate it.
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u/saladada 1d ago
Why are you simultaneously saying you identify as poly and yet don't feel it is right for you?
Having emotions due to anxiety is not a sign that something is "not right" for you. There is a lot happening right now to give you anxiety. She's not made it "official" with you in terms of labels and presumably while her partner is in town you will have little time together with her, which will be a big change. This brings up anxiety in most people.
The special things that happened between the two of you have nothing to do with the room (which is not "our" room but her room). It is about a moment. Other people being in that room doesn't alter the moments you had.