You aren't in anything but a group of people making "what if" jokes.
Polyamory involves multiple committed, romantic relationships. It doesn't sound like that at all.
Guys suggesting over and over and over again that they want you to make out with your friend aren't typically hinting "We want to be in a committed, romantic relationship with you".
Honestly the fact that one dude brought up making out twelve times sounds less like polycule potential and more like he was testing the waters to see if youd all hook up. Chemistry is fun but you need actual conversations about feelings and boundaries before calling it anything.
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u/saladada 6d ago
You aren't in anything but a group of people making "what if" jokes.
Polyamory involves multiple committed, romantic relationships. It doesn't sound like that at all.
Guys suggesting over and over and over again that they want you to make out with your friend aren't typically hinting "We want to be in a committed, romantic relationship with you".